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sk8er
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You'll find somebody that's gonna change your tune someday.
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11:02 am on Nov. 4, 2009 | Joined: Mar. 2005 | Days Active: 510
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purplesquid91
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if you find the right girl you won't mind spending all of your time with her. plus, sex is really great and you are missing out
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Sex is the best high. It's better than any drug.
I want to die making love because it feels so good.
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tomigurl08
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someone will come along one day and just not be too needy
just wait and see for now
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Stormblazer
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Quote: from Anonymous at 12:01 pm on Nov. 4, 2009
 So, sometimes I want a girlfriend, but most of the time I don't. I enjoy being by myself, and I think having a girlfriend would prevent this. Catering to the needs of a girl sounds fun, but not all the time. You know? Having a girlfriend would destroy who I am, and damper my goals in life since she would take up a load of time. I guess I'm just weird and will be a virgin until I'm 27. Ahhh, that's only in about six more years.
I used to think like this, before I realized that was only because I was making stupid assumptions about relationships, and could make my own rules so long as I could be consistent and ethical about it. And that's what I've done. Do I have a girlfriend? No, but then I'm not exactly looking either, and I'm far more confident about relationships in general. One of the biggest changes I made was moving from a supposedly monogamous paradigm to a polyamorous one, but it's more than just that. In your case, you seem to be assuming a girlfriend partner would take up a lot of time. This is true stereotypically, but not necessarily. Find a girl who also likes having space. Time spent with someone =/= intimacy of relationship - the polyamory community is excellent evidence of that much. And sometimes I just like having female companionship that isn't sexual. Thanks to my annoyingly straight sexuality, I still find it easier to get close to girls than guys (emotionally).
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sk8er
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Quote: from Stormblazer at 11:38 am on Nov. 4, 2009
Quote: from sk8er at 12:37 pm on Nov. 4, 2009
Quote: from Stormblazer at 11:35 am on Nov. 4, 2009
Quote: from sk8er at 12:02 pm on Nov. 4, 2009
You'll find somebody that's gonna change your tune someday.
I disagree pretty strongly. Oh sure, it's true in the context of NRE sometimes, especially in high school, but outside of that... not really. People who like space in relationships tend to stay that way. See above post.
Yeah your right. But you never know. He could still meet somebody.
I never said he wouldn't. I'm saying he needs to find people who also like having space in their relationships.
I understand.
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