ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 6mths and the relationship is great the ony thing is that I have a hard time opening up to him and he tries to get me to talk but I wont say anything unless something is bothering me. It didnt use to be like this when we started out I used to tell him everything, but now since I've told him some personal things its hhard for me to be open with him again what should I do?
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just try to again
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squeekybee
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wait until youre comfortable again. It was the other way around for me, I wouldnt tell him anything when we started going out, now I tell him everything
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LudovicoTechnique
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Perhaps have him open up more to you, so you feel comfortable around him again.
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I mean idk
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I mean
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I mean we have already had a fight about him texting a girl that he doesnt even know let alone met. When I told him last night that it was over he cried saying that he wants to be with me and he wants us to last. I mean I told him in the beginning that I would be with him through thick and thin but now its like I just want to say fuck it I dont want to lose him over some bullshit but idk please help me
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doiochiverzi
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it sounds to me... like you let down all your barriers and you are afraid that he's going to hurt you. And if he's texting other girls and stuff I can understand why your trust is a little shaky. Unlike everyone else on this topic however, I think you need to keep your guard up. If you suspect something is up... something might very well be up. You will get hurt a lot worse if he hurts you after you let your guard down and open up to him again. Make sure you should trust him before you let yourself trust him. I' not saying that you shouldn't trust him. I'm just saying that if you're having trouble opening up to him... i just suggest you keep in mind that you come first. protect yourself.
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ur rite I did...I mean I trust him but I mean the first time that I ever put his hands on me was 2 weeks ago now when we got into a fight and he never once hit me. Im scared to getting hurt because I was in an abusive relationship before he came along. I guess its the fact that i dont know how to deal because Im scared. His mom called me 4 days ago and she told me that she knew what was going on between us two and she told me that I had nothing to worry about and then that's when I broke down and told her about the abusive relationship that I was in before him and she knew where I was coming from and she just told me to take a few days off from him to get my feelings and thoughts togetheer and that she would be there to guide me when I was stuck...Im just scared to actually fully love him..I mean we say it and he means it but me Im scared to love him with all I have again
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