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is there any way to tell he's doing the same to me?
Replies: 17Last Post Nov. 8 12:16pm by xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx
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i overthink things and they piss me off. i like this guy and he likes me back. he treats me like we're going out in public (like walks me to class, hugs on me, has a pic we took as his default, "tries" to hang out with me) but when we're alone he gets super shy. he has some baggage too, this 15 year old keeps harassing him on myspace and stuff, he told me the story about her and he said "she used to date my cousin but he wanted to break up with her and she wouldn't leave him alone so he asked me to get her off his nuts, i started talking to her and she thought we were going out" and i'm sitting here going wtf. this crazy bitch added me on myspace too.  


see i'm wondering if he's doing something similar like that to me, because his bestfriend has been trying to go out with my bestfriend since the beginning of the year. his bestfriend used to complain a long time ago that me and this other guy kept hanging around my bestfriend and that's why he didn't ask her out.
but thats some bs, because i used to leave them alone a lot, she does not like him and says it, but acts nice to him, so he's still pursuing her.
anyways, i'm afraid that my guy might just be trying to keep me busy so i dont hang with my bestfriend as much. he's asked her out a few more times when they're alone like he'll say "what do you think about us going out" and she'll say "i think it's crazy.."


but i really like my guy but i'm so scared, my friends say that it seems like he has a connection with me and my other bestfriend said my theory is probably incorrect.

Post edited at 11:39 am on Nov. 8, 2009 by xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx

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Trust your friend if you want cause it seems like you are overthinking things :/

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Time will tell. Talk to him.

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Quote: from SpRiNgS at 11:40 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Trust your friend if you want cause it seems like you are overthinking things :/

I wouldn't have had to overthink things if thoughts like this don't come to mind

"why hasn't he asked me out yet"
-maybe he wants me to think we're going out so he'll pull that same shit on me
"why is this 15 year old tripping so much, she said he took her virginity? is he an asshole under all that or is she just a crazy bitch like he says she is?"
-fuck
"if he's willing to do that for his cousin, wouldn't he be willing to do the same for his bestfriend?"
-idk

Post edited at 11:44 am on Nov. 8, 2009 by xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx

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Quote: from xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx at 11:43 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from SpRiNgS at 11:40 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Trust your friend if you want cause it seems like you are overthinking things :/

I wouldn't have had to overthink things if thoughts like this don't come to mind

"why hasn't he asked me out yet"
-maybe he wants me to think we're going out so he'll pull that same shit on me
"why is this 15 year old tripping so much, she said he took her virginity? is he an asshole under all that or is she just a crazy bitch like he says she is?"
-fuck
"if he's willing to do that for his cousin, wouldn't he be willing to do the same for his bestfriend?"
-idk


you could try trusting the guy.or if he does seem shady just talk to him about it rather than letting our thoughts get filled with a bunch of crazy ness you know

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Quote: from SpRiNgS at 11:45 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx at 11:43 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from SpRiNgS at 11:40 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Trust your friend if you want cause it seems like you are overthinking things :/
 

 I wouldn't have had to overthink things if thoughts like this don't come to mind  

 "why hasn't he asked me out yet"  
 -maybe he wants me to think we're going out so he'll pull that same shit on me  
 "why is this 15 year old tripping so much, she said he took her virginity? is he an asshole under all that or is she just a crazy bitch like he says she is?"  
 -fuck  
 "if he's willing to do that for his cousin, wouldn't he be willing to do the same for his bestfriend?"  
 -idk  

 


 

you could try trusting the guy.or if he does seem shady just talk to him about it rather than letting our thoughts get filled with a bunch of crazy ness you know


okay he lies to me about getting high because i dont smoke weed? like i can't tell if it's him being shady or if it's just a coincidence, like

http://golivewire.com/forums/peer-ysotisn-support-a.html#1



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if you think he's being shady confront him about it rather than overthinking itl. it's better to go into a relationship sure on dude rather than worrying

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fuck i dont wana deal with shit but i actually like him

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Quote: from xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx at 11:54 am on Nov. 8, 2009

fuck i dont wana deal with shit but i actually like him
well if you don't wnt to deal with stuff idk what to say about that. I mean I think you'd rather have allt hese questions answered rather than not deal with them right?

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Quote: from SpRiNgS at 11:57 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx at 11:54 am on Nov. 8, 2009

fuck i dont wana deal with shit but i actually like him
well if you don't wnt to deal with stuff idk what to say about that. I mean I think you'd rather have allt hese questions answered rather than not deal with them right?

true that. but since i'm so unsure i feel like avoiding it. and it's impossible IMO to vent these crazy thoughts to him without sounding like i'm tripping and paranoid

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Quote: from xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx at 11:58 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from SpRiNgS at 11:57 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx at 11:54 am on Nov. 8, 2009

fuck i dont wana deal with shit but i actually like him
well if you don't wnt to deal with stuff idk what to say about that. I mean I think you'd rather have allt hese questions answered rather than not deal with them right?

true that. but since i'm so unsure i feel like avoiding it. and it's impossible IMO to vent these crazy thoughts to him without sounding like i'm tripping and paranoid


try writing them down at first before saying them. Just tell him you want to go into this relationship with everything out on the table?

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Quote: from SpRiNgS at 12:00 pm on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx at 11:58 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from SpRiNgS at 11:57 am on Nov. 8, 2009

Quote: from xXmY PaPeR HeArTXx at 11:54 am on Nov. 8, 2009

fuck i dont wana deal with shit but i actually like him
well if you don't wnt to deal with stuff idk what to say about that. I mean I think you'd rather have allt hese questions answered rather than not deal with them right?

 

 true that. but since i'm so unsure i feel like avoiding it. and it's impossible IMO to vent these crazy thoughts to him without sounding like i'm tripping and paranoid


try writing them down at first before saying them. Just tell him you want to go into this relationship with everything out on the table?

okay ill write them down, but he hasn't even asked me out yet

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well what odes that matter? you want to know if he's for real before him asking you out don't you?

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Quote: from SpRiNgS at 12:05 pm on Nov. 8, 2009

well what odes that matter? you want to know if he's for real before him asking you out don't you?

yes but i'm afraid it might be a sign. okay, we might go to the mall today, what do i do if i feel he's lying or shy?

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call him out on it?

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