I'm not really sure where to put this, so if it's in the wrong forum I hope the mods move it.

Anyway, here's the story....5th year in college, graduating soon, and I've never kissed a girl, felt a breast, etc. I'm short (5'5-5'6, 120 lbs), but I'm not bad looking. I just can't understand what women have against me...I'm charming, intelligent, funny. I always seem to get the "you're cute...but not my type" thing from women. I ALWAYS get called cute. Is this the reason? Are women only interested in dating hotties?!

I have no game...I don't know how to approach women on campus, or how to pickup women in class. I need tips!

---

I am 22 and I have never had my first kiss either

---

you've probably not been around the right type of people that would appreciate you

if you meet a girl you like just jump out of your comfort zone and talk to her. even if its a hello it's a step to getting you more confident

-------
there is nothing you can do that i have not already done to myself

BTW I've posted 2 pictures up of me on my profile. I would *really* appreciate any feedback on what I need to change about my looks...maybe it's possible for me to go from "boyish cute" to hot, Idk

just a smile of someone really makes a girls day

-------
there is nothing you can do that i have not already done to myself

turns out she was a slag

-------
there is nothing you can do that i have not already done to myself

Post edited at 9:55 pm on Nov. 8, 2009 by morrisonsMYmuse

-------
"organized people are just too lazy to look for stuff!!"

I don't know, maybe if you're very talented at something, pursue that rigorously because talent (especially artistic talent) tends to make people more attractive and socially valuable.

I don't have a hot body myself (I'm 5'8" and skinny), but kissing has never been a problem for me. Just try to find out what innate personality traits you have, and try to develop them to become a person you'd want to be with if you were not you. In other words, be yourself but don't be a flavourless people-pleaser. Develop some kind of edge.

Post edited at 7:31 am on Nov. 9, 2009 by Zdrav

That is very good advice! Looking at it from my own personal perspective, I know that an instant attraction killer is a girl who is easy to get, clingy, etc. Like you said, it shows that they are a people-pleaser, and are willing to date anyone. I've never thought about it, but I can see how I might be this person...hmm I'll have to change that. Somehow. lol