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me and my fiance are getting married in a yr or so and i used to be engaged to another guy well, that other guy died of brain cancer and i never truely got over him. we were happy together and never had any "big" fights. he broke up with me when his cancer got bad and we still hanged out but i refused to take off the engagement ring. now that hes dead ive still been in  love with him and now im in love with my fiance. well im now over my ex-fiance but i feel like i let go way to quick. its been almost a year since he died. and i do truely love my new fiance with all my heart. we are happy together just as much or more then what i was with my ex but he still aint like my first fiance. they are also so simaliar its scary. ive had some of the same convo. with him as my ex and i truely believe my ex put him in my life. may i please get some help or advice on this issue, im not new here so i know how we all like to just shoot over these topics but i do need this

1:20 pm on Nov. 8, 2009
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You may feel subconsciously guilty, don't It's okay to love someone else.

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You are getting MARRIED!? Who made you...seriously,no one iis doing that because they want. You pregnant?

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You loved your fiancee, and you still miss him. But you love your new fiancee. A year is plenty long enough to get over him. You shouldn't feel guilty for finding someone else after your old fiancee. Love comes when we least expect it, and if your old fiancee really loved you, then he'd want you to be happy.

It might be a good idea to talk to your current fiancee. Tell him about your old one, and that you still miss him, and he should comfort you. The best comfort comes from someone you love, not from some random people on an online forum. You need to hear your fiancee to say that he loves you, and that he understands that you miss your old one. Trust him with your feelings. If you need more time, then I'm sure he'll understand if you want to postpone the wedding for a while. Just don't go into this marriage without heeding your feelings, because then you might regret it later on. Be sure you're ready first.

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I think the only thing he would want is for you to be happy, even if it means moving on.

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