so...this girl and i have been talking and hanging out for only a couple days now..but the first night we hung out we ended up getting drunk and hooking up...now she tells me it was the alcohol and it was a bad idea to get wasted together the first night we hung out...but then she was like obviously we are attracted to each other but i want to take things incredibly slow..especially since you just got out of a relationship you should want to take things even slower than i do...and im really not completely over my ex....shes like i want to get to know you and make sure what we have is real....she was like i really like you...like im into you..but i just want to make sure we dont end up doing things for the wrong reasons...and i was like yea i really regret us getting so wasted on the first night we hung out and hooking up...and she was like well you dont have to regret it..obviously it was a mutual thing and we are both attracted to one another.... the only thing that throws me off is that shes so incredibly hesitant with me....and today she went out of town and i was like okay text me when u get there...and nothing...all day i havent heard from her....so i dont get it...
You HOOKED UP, do you really think that meant you had feelings for each other? What a great foundation to build a relationship on.
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pumpkin475
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it would be easier for us to understand who said what if you use quotations
and who knows why she's doing that. she is apparently a little uncomfortable. perhaps she didn't text cus today was supposed to be a day to herself to think and stuff. i dunno
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kink122206
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You gotta be patient dude.. Everyone has reasons for what they do, and what they say.. Just relax,(:
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xcutioners
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COPY & PASTE MUCH?
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LoveKay
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Dude... quit reposting the same shit.
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nik1
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OMG......you banged the first time you were alone with her and now she wants to move slow?
Want to make sure you do things for the right reasons.....and you've already done it???
She wants to get to know you but having sex with you before she knows you is ok?????
Both of you are fucked in the head in my opinion.
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seems to me she really really likes u just wants a chance to get to know u...trust me if she didnt like u she wouldnt even have tried to take things slow
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