Will someone please read this and if you can give any advice, please do.
Little over a year ago I was molested and I lost my passion. Any passion in me was gone. My sex drive. My desire to write. My passion for certain things. Even people.
How do I get it back!!? I miss it so much....v.v
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You get over being molested.
It's sounds harsh, but it's the truth.
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Perhaps you should look into counseling. You have to deal with things before you can get over them and move on with your life.
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Talk to a therapist.
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mtllcrckmn
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Use it to write.
It might hurt all over again, but I think you can get some passion back.
it's harsh but it doesn't really help the situation at all. I've never been molested but a friend of mine was. Do you go to counseling of any sort? Getting over something like this takes a long time usually sad to say, but having someone to help you get through it makes it better
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I was molested before the one I mentioned before...And I'm in therapy right now...I don't know. It's hard to explain to a few close people how it's gone. Most don't get it >.<
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I was molested before the one I mentioned before...And I'm in therapy right now...I don't know. It's hard to explain to a few close people how it's gone. Most don't get it >.<
It's going to be tough to open up seeing as most haven't been through what you've been through (your close friends that is) but that's the thing about it, it's along process
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You're going to have to talk to a professional and seek some professional help. Us teens won't really be all that much help to you.
It will, like Springs said, to open up, but you're going to have to try too.
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When I was 8 and 10 my cousin raped me....i blocked it complettely out of my memorie( says my phys). Then when I turned 14, one of my dads friends raped me an it brought it all back. I became sex addict..because I couldn't feel sex. Then I got into a serious relashionship, I couldn't feel anything so I faked it...when he found out he beat me...them after two years I found my boyfriend, who new about my sex addiction and he suggested help. So then I found val she is a wonderful councler...now at 19 Ive had a comepletly normal sexual relashionship for two years.
I really hope this helped you. I go to a seminar for Beaten and secually abused weman and young teens...I'm one of the sponcer there... You should get into a group like that maybe it will help.
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