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girl + boyfriend (not me)
Replies: 5 — Last Post Nov. 8 10:43pm by Total Destruction
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Thoughts, please?

I'm a freshman in college now. I met this girl at an accepted students thing back before the summer, and we talked a bit before getting to school. Recently, I've started thinking I like her as more than a friend.

We've eaten together a few times, and so I found out that she has a boyfriend at another school.

I obviously wouldn't have a chance to get any further with her until she is single, but I have no idea of her relationship situation. I fear that I'll be friend-zoned before any time I might get a chance in the future.

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Spend a ton of time with her, make her dump her boyfriend.

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What's your point?

It's better than nothing.

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there are lots of fish in the sea.
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ok.. in this situation, it's better to be friend-zoned than nothing at all. hang out with her lots. be a little flirty with her, but not over the top.
if anything happens in her relationship.. be there for her.. genuinely be there for her.. don't try to take advantage when she's vulnerable..
then.. when she's unattached.. when the time is right.. tell her how you feel...

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I would respect her space and relationship, until you noticed a change in behavior. Then when she is vulnerable be her "savior".

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