i have been seeing this older guy who i work with since the summer. i am 21 and he is 35. were not a couple or anything we are just hooking up. at first i thought he was using me for sex, as he would always text me asking "when do you want to ****?" etc. but he is starting to act a bit different now. yesterday i was at his house and he kissed the back of my head while hugging me from behind. i was sitting on his lap while we were on the computer looking at something, he was constantly touching me and he even grabbed my hand and held it for a minute. we would kiss while having sex and he was stroking my face which was the first time he did that. he lets me sleep over. the thing that kind of bothers me though is that we never cuddle really. we even kissed goodbye when i left his house. when i saw him at work later on in the same day he acted kind of different. i noticed him staring at me a couple times from the corner of my eye. he seemed sad or something when he greeted me at work. he never really acted like this before..and i'm feeling really confused. i really like him a lot! what do you think is going on between us?
5:31 pm on Nov. 8, 2009
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Amandatini
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...Are you really that dense?
THERE IS SOMETHING GOOD THERE, DO NOT KILL IT
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5:32 pm on Nov. 8, 2009 | Joined: July 2009 | Days Active: 134 Join to learn more about AmandatiniConnecticut, United States | BisexualFemale | Posts: 3,513 | Points: 5,208
You COULD by overanalyzing it to the point where you interpret everything differently than he means it to be taken. Just chill.
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