so this girl and i have been talking and hanging out for only a couple days now..but the first night we hung out we ended up getting drunk and hooking up...now she tells me it was the alcohol and it was a bad idea to get wasted together the first night we hung out...but then she was like obviously we are attracted to each other but i want to take things incredibly slow..especially since you just got out of a relationship...and im really not completely over my ex....shes like i want to get to know you and make sure what we have is real....she was like i really dig you...i really do...but i just want to make sure we dont end up doing things for the wrong reasons...and i was like yea i really regret us getting so wasted on the first night we hung out and hooking up...and she was like well you dont have to regret it..obviously it was a mutual thing and we are both attracted to one another.... the only thing that throws me off is that shes so incredibly hesitant with me....i didnt even hug her goodbye....what could be going on with her? what should i do?
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xcutioners
Enlightened One
Stop drinking and having drunk sex.
This is what happens...... drama comes in
Tell the girl how you feel.
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babecakes
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WOW, she is just playing you roud..little dramma queen who needs a cock.
why are u so clueless? she's just useing you to get over her ex. leave her alone.
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betz
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run away she said "i dig you" lol
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fairylights
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Why don't you try taking it slow like she suggested? Sounds to me like she does like you but she's hesitant about going into a relationship so wants to test things out abit first.
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switchfoott052
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she's scared of getting hurt again by a guy.
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Raiku
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shes just a shallow whore
dont worry, a few kicks in the stomach will make her like you
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I haven't heard someone say I dig you. Ever. I mean, I know people say it if they like someone I guess, but I've never heard anyone say it seriously.
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