Male, female, those are rough crude categories that don't always work too well.

There are people that are literally only attracted to one person.

There are people who are attracted to most girls, but only one guy and vice versa.

It's a mess, even my spectrum analogy is getting weaker and weaker as I learn more about it.

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Mancrushes or girlcrushes don't define someone's sexuality.
In my experience, a straight person with a man/girl crush doesn't necessarily want to do anything sexually with that person. :\

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That's why I like to be close minded.

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thats why you fail.

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Quote: from Trendz at 11:32 pm on Nov. 6, 2009

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Mancrushes or girlcrushes don't define someone's sexuality.  
 In my experience, a straight person with a man/girl crush doesn't necessarily want to do anything sexually with that person. :\

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The situations I'm talking about are not just crushes, they're full on attraction - and yes, I'm well aware of the difference.

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Quote: from Stormblazer at 1:34 am on Nov. 7, 2009

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Quote: from Trendz at 11:32 pm on Nov. 6, 2009

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Mancrushes or girlcrushes don't define someone's sexuality.    
In my experience, a straight person with a man/girl crush doesn't necessarily want to do anything sexually with that person. :\

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The situations I'm talking about are not just crushes, they're full on attraction - and yes, I'm well aware of the difference.

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Then they couldn't be classified as straight.

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Post edited at 10:39 pm on Nov. 6, 2009 by Stormblazer

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Can't be classified as bisexual or gay either.

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Quote: from Stormblazer at 1:39 am on Nov. 7, 2009

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Can't be classified as bisexual or gay either.

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Sure could. It's bisexual.
By definition.
Or pansexual or polysexual if they don't want to be considered as bi.

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At the very least, it is definitely stretching the idea.
And pansexual means attracted to everyone.

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Quote: from Areola at 10:32 pm on Nov. 6, 2009

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But if you like men and women, it's bisexual. Simple.

And FTR, I know the attraction to only one person of either gender is highly uncommon.
In most cases it's either all or nothing.

There is one trend that I have seen on LW that is disturbing to me and that is the idea that sex with other members of the family is ok.  Underage kids can also be included in this change.  Incest is not ok in my opinion and LW needs to draw the line on this one.  Kids don't pay any attention to what their parents say but they will listen with wide open ears when someone their own age or another teenage telling about what they did with their brother, sister, aunt, uncle or whatever.  In my opinion by LW not drawing the line on this topic it becomes a form of endorsement.