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porn jealousy
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Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
so i've got a problem that's, well, starting to be more of a problem now. my bf and i got into a big argument over it.

i get jealous over porn. like, when my bf says or even implies he's looking at porn i freak out.

i know some girls feel like porn is cheating, but that's NOT it at all. idgaf about some photo or video, it's just the fact that he would ever want to look at porn in the first place that makes me feel inadequate and hate myself. it's like i'm not good enough, ya know? idk, it's hard to explain.

does anyone else ever feel like this? :/

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Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
Nope, definitely not.
Why don't you try watching it WITH him?

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the raven



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it's just porn
it doesnt mean anything against you or your body
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jordynstar

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yea. used to. get over it. watch porn with him, it's hotter..

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you wanna be his only fantasy i can understand that
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Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
I definitely know where you're coming from :| He's with YOU for a reason though. You're clearly more than good enough for him.

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Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
Quote: from jordynstar at 10:28 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
yea. used to. get over it. watch porn with him, it's hotter..

It is, indeed.

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I heard something about pornography making guys less likely to cheat. like its the way of younger men exploring being promiscuous without being such.

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Porn is meh. Watch it with him. Duh.

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Why are you jealous?

It's a sexual release, he isn't necessarily in love with those women he masturbates to. His emotional attraction is what you should really look out for. When he starts to love the women more than he loves you is when I'd start to worry. Don't be bothered with it. Your inadequacy isn't just because of his masturbating to them, it's something more. It's an insecurity that is preventing trust. If you deal with the original problem, you'll learn to turn the other cheek when he does his sexual release.

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Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
Quote: from Iaintmarchingnemore at 10:28 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
I heard something about pornography making guys less likely to cheat. like its the way of younger men exploring being promiscuous without being such.

That's an interesting take on it, I must say...

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Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
Quote: from Ass FUCK Supreme at 10:31 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
Why are you jealous?  

It's a sexual release, he isn't necessarily in love with those women he masturbates to. His emotional attraction is what you should really look out for. When he starts to love the women more than he loves you is when I'd start to worry. Don't be bothered with it. Your inadequacy isn't just because of his masturbating to them, it's something more. It's an insecurity that is preventing trust. If you deal with the original problem, you'll learn to turn the other cheek when he does his sexual release.

interesting. i need to think about this more.

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Quote: from The Raven at 7:27 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
it's just porn
it doesnt mean anything against you or your body


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Porn = fake sex....

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kiral


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no i actually even love THINKING about my boyfriend watching porn and getting off

actually, thinking about that even gets me off

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