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have you ever had to break up with someone you were still in love with |
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 Replies: 6 — Last Post Aug. 30 5:44pm by Brunette lady
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( craziredbeauty13 )
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or is that just a dumb idea?
see, my boyfriend is in college, and i'm still in high school. it's hard....but whats making it harder is how much i love him. i love him so much it almost hurts.
he's still in -state, but i only see him once every other week, and when I don't see him he's always on my mind. I randomly get bouts of intense lonliness and sadness just thinking about how much I miss him. I also worry that he'll find someone else. Especially when I visit him...he's friends with a really pretty girl on his floor, and he was staring at her with me there, so I confronted him later. He said he didn't even realize he was (like that makes it better), and he got really upset, saying he's thought about it and he doesn't want anyone else. (it's not a line, he's a real honest guy.) But still...i hate all the feelings that come with him being away....jealousy, worry, etc. There's good feelings there still of course,and they last longer, but the bad feelings seem to leave more of a mark if you know what I mean. Plus, he's kind of changing. I expected it, and it's not a huge change, but still...ack I just don't know. My question is this....
I love him very much, very very much, and just thinking about not being with him hurts....but I'm scared, and I kinda am thinking about leaving him while things are good, if that makes sense. And in a selfish way, I'm sick of all these emotions. It's a lot harder than I thought it'd be, and I'm getting exhausted from just feeeling, and I don't want to drag him down.
But when we're so in love, is it stupid to end it, even with all the "buts"?
Anyone ahve any similar stories?
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reddove189
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 Ending the relationship might not be such a
bad thing. My ex just graduated from college and
im just starting college, anyway all the time he was
in college (2 yrs) I found out hed been seeing another girl, we had a REALLY bad breakup.
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( craziredbeauty13 )
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Quote: from reddove189 at 4:05 pm on Aug. 30, 2009
 Ending the relationship might not be such a
bad thing. My ex just graduated from college and
im just starting college, anyway all the time he was
in college (2 yrs) I found out hed been seeing another girl, we had a REALLY bad breakup. 
i'm sorry that's really sad. I'm sorry that happened to you. BUt I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, and If anything I wouldn;t end it because of trust. I just am thinking about it because of how hard it is, in a nutshell.
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I am truly in love with my husband and ud I was in your situation I would asume that I didn't really love him. If I was considering leaving him I would know that I didn't love him. I just feel like someone who truly is in love with their significant other would have more trust and be willing to do whatever it took to stay with them.
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reddove189
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 I think its really great that you trust him that much.
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