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New housemate, not bonding too well! :(
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( woolo )


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Hi all!

Recently we have had a new housemate move in. Now she moved in about a month ago is always out working in the day and to be honest dosent seem up for much in the evenings.

Anyway it's been a month of her living here and for the next three months it will just be me and her sharing the house! Now it's beginning to get a little awkward as we don't seem to have clicked yet.

Anyone got any ideas i can suggest to her for us to grow a little closer??

To be totally honest i don't really have that many female friends so tips from girls would be great!


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Just seem interested in something she's doing, get to know her and bit and vice versa. Just talk. :)

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blacksunshine

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move out 4 a while

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She's either shy or just doesn't care and wants to be left alone, if I were you I'd just try to strike up any random conversation...ask questions but not in an interrogating way...just try to get to understand where she's coming from.

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( woolo )


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To be honest the problem is getting her to talk. I feel like i have to drag conversation out of her. I guess it's just nerves,

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take her out to eat soemtime

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Maybe she just has no interest in making friends. She sees you as a roommate, and nothing more. I work all day too, and to be honest, by the end of the day, you just don't want to deal with people.

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talk, take her out?

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I guess moving out for a while is a good idea, think i'll go stay with some friends for a week soon. Maybe she needs  space to settle in.

I've taken her out for drinks and even for lunch which she liked, i invited her out with a couple mates of mine but she didn't seem interested. I am begining to think she dislikes me as i'm always and i mean always the one to invite her or initiate a conversation.


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If she's nervous, then it will come across that way. Are you living with anyone else? Well, try and get those people to talk to her to find out what's wrong if so.

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