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my room mate is still acting like I extremely disrespected her by having a guy over and making out/talking in my bed one night a few weeks back. She talked to me about it and I've never had anyone over while she was in the room again. She still brings it up though, with the RN and with me last night as well as with my fucking SISTER, as if I need to be told again.

I asked her multiple times throughout it if she was awake and for some reason seh didn't respond, which I took as a sign that she was asleep

I did the same thing last night in another guy's dorm and his rm said he didn't mind at all and that he's always at his gf's place

She also gives me shit about "You get drunk EVERY WEEKEND." Uh yeah. It's called the weekend. She wasn't mad when our suitemates got shitfaced last night, and she was drunk last night too.

Also she acts like I'm a slob when I'm really not. I've never left clothes or anything else on the floor not counting under my bed, apparently she doesn't' even like me leaving shit under my bed which is stupid. My desk and clear shelves were slightly cluttered before I reorganized my shit, and I had empty food wrappers and containers in there, but other than that there was nothing.

ALSO, I've really compromised my life in a lot of ways, like if it's a night before schooldays and I'm out late I'll intentionally stay in the study hall until 6:30 am so that I come in at an hour she can claim is indecent, and she doesn't let me smoke because I'll bring the smell back, so IDK where she gets the idea it's harder for her than me.

Fuck it, I was just thinking about how last night this finally came out while we were both drunk and then some other guy brought me into his dorm at 4 am and I was shocked later on when his room mate wasn't mad about it. And i was just thinking dear God why can't I have a room mate that isn't an extremely light sleeper with an extremely sensitive nose

Post edited at 10:27 pm on Oct. 3, 2009 by Bearsy

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cause girls are

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Dude, your roommate sounds like a bitch. You need to make her compromise or something.

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apparently she told our suite mate that I was having sex because the two of them were making fun of me last night and the sm was doing an impression of me going

"*whisper* (rm's name) *thrusting motions*" and they were both telling me about how that's not enough and is super disrepsectful or whatever

1) I didn't do it again

2) I don't think I've ever asked her, why the fuck did she pretend to be asleep?

btw we would stop every time she flipped because we figured it meant she just woke up. Then we'd ask her if she was awake and she wouldn't say anything.

I've felt like I'm an asshole room mate since I came here, despite trying my best, because she and this chick in the other dorm had me convinced I was, but after spending a few nights in other rooms and seeing how other people live I think I've been a pretty fucking respectful room mate and I don't see where she gets the idea she's getting a bad deal

Post edited at 10:37 pm on Oct. 3, 2009 by Bearsy

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she also said I "bring guys home every weekend"
I do bring the guy I like home every weekend and he only spends the night nights that she's out of the room

really, what the hell could be wrong with having people in the room when she's not even there. She only sees them in the mornings

unlike her I don't have the luxury of being able to go home on the weekends

Post edited at 10:34 pm on Oct. 3, 2009 by Bearsy

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Welllll, having sex in the same room as your rm is probably super awkward for her, so she does have a right to ask you to not do it.  That doesn't really give her a right to bring it up constantly though.  You guys might need a mediator to come to a compromise or something

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Quote: from pmini at 10:36 pm on Oct. 3, 2009

Welllll, having sex in the same room as your rm is probably super awkward for her, so she does have a right to ask you to not do it. That doesn't really give her a right to bring it up constantly though. You guys might need a mediator to come to a compromise or something

1) We weren't having sex.

2) I didn't mind her askin me not to do it again. I mind that it was three weeks ago and she still acts like this was unforgivable and people other than the two of us should know (there were two of my suite mate's guests over when they were making fun of that okay, talk about disrespectful, I'd just met them)

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although she might have just made a point of that cos I'd just told her I might not move out after all, and she probably got excited that she was getting the room to herself

I mean if I thought she was moving out my heart would sink if she changed her mind

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Quote: from Bearsy at 11:13 pm on Oct. 3, 2009

although she might have just made a point of that cos I'd just told her I might not move out after all, and she probably got excited that she was getting the room to herself

I mean if I thought she was moving out my heart would sink if she changed her mind


lol you guys need a mediator

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she tried using my sister

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now im watching snl and she is skyping



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Quote: from Bearsy at 11:53 pm on Oct. 3, 2009

now im watching snl and she is skyping  


snl isn't on here yet

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