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RIMHfire
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Seriously, just stick it out the first semester. You can't jump to those conclusions after 3 days.
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2:09 pm on Aug. 23, 2009 | Joined: Aug. 2008 | Days Active: 281
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Sety
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Quote: from RIMHfire at 2:09 pm on Aug. 23, 2009
 Seriously, just stick it out the first semester. You can't jump to those conclusions after 3 days.
I concur. Try some more. Best of luck.
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"Take away this mask of flesh and bone and see me for my soul alone."
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2:14 pm on Aug. 23, 2009 | Joined: April 2008 | Days Active: 234
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severe
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I'm in the same boat you are. I hate it here. Feel free to message me.
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LonerPunkster
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it be stupid to drop out from college after you payed a shitful load of money. Besides if you think college is hard think of what the military would be like. Now I know I am not in the military but my cousins are and I know from their experience
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Bona fide
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Starting college is never easy. During my first week, I felt lost and really upset like you do right now. I promise it does get better though! You just need to meet more people and get more involved in the activities on offer. Try getting to know your course mates more and arranging something with them. There are plenty of people out there and you just need to get out there more, because isolating yourself never works - trust me. Have you considered counselling? I think it would be a good idea to start, as you clearly need more guidance about your course and what you want to achieve, in addition to the homesickness you feel which is normal for everyone. I can relate to your situation about your girlfriend, as I've been away from mine for so long now and the hard part is knowing that I won't be able to see her before I go away again :'(. It's great that your girlfriend is transferring to your college in the second semester - I mean, for all you know she might not even want to go to that college, but she's doing this for you. Remember that when you feel low and such, because most relationships fail as a result of the partner moving away and going to college. She must care a great deal about you to keep strong like this. I would really advise you not to quit right now, and instead you should talk to your tutor about how you feel. During the first week I wanted to quit, all because I felt like a failure and knew the others were smarter. Well, I know that was childish now, as in the end I managed doing better than them in some things. You just have to keep reminding yourself what gave you the ambition to start the course - what you want to do in the future. Good luck.
PM me anytime. 
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