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Replies: 7Last Post Oct. 22, 2009 12:46pm by jennyjorgenson
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Okay, so don't call me an idiot please. They didn't teach sex ed in school.

My boyfriend I had been dating for about two weeks, kinda made me give him one. He told me if I stopped I would suck and it would make it a lot faster if I did and he'd go home. He told me he didn't pull it out. Ugh, I'm so ashamed. My best friend told me I did nothing wrong. I feel like I did. I pulled away, but he was stronger.

Wanna know the worst part? This will make your jaw drop, and you'll think I'm a whore.
I'm 13, almost 14. He's a freshman.

He asked me to do it as fast as I could, I did it hecka fast. It was so scary.

I didn't "finish". He had to go home. So I have some dumb questions for you.

1) When do I know its "finished"?
2) I was scared of his cum. I didn't want him to make me give him a blowjob. So..what does it mean if he only came a tat bit but what still moaning, a lot?
3) I broke up with him. Even though besides that he was perfect. Did I do the right thing?
4) If word gets out do I lie through my teeth? Or don't deny it?
5) Did I do anything wrong?


1:44 am on Sep. 22, 2009
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1. He'll cum. (squirt white stuff everywhere)
2. You shouldnt do anything that you do not want to do.
3. Yes yes you did.
4. Nah. Say you its your personal business to do whatever you want to do in your life. And if any one else has anything to say about it they can go fuck themselves.
5. No. You are fine. Normal to experiment with boys. Its fine. Just try to do it with someone you care about who wont take advantage of you. And someone you know who isnt gonna be a dick about it.

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1) "Finished" generally refers to when he cums.
2) Still moaning, i.e. either not finished or still enjoying.
3) DEFINITELY the right thing. Whether you want to admit it or not, what he did was abusive. Those kinds of situations only escalate further. You did the right thing by getting yourself out.
4) Ignore what other people say. Its none of their business. As for what you say or don't say in reply, just do what feels right. If you're ok with telling them, whether that means yes you did it or he forced you to, then tell them. If not, don't. There's no right or wrong.
5) Absolutely NOT. This was HIS fault, he had no right, no matter what the circumstances were.

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk.

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I was 13 when I first did it and I didn't KNOW what cum was, really.
1. when he jizzes
2. he enjoyed it
3.Probably yeah if you weren't ready he wasn't perfect.
4. do whatever you're comfortable with. tell the truth that he forced you if you like.
5. nah.

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As mentioned above, he'll cum when finished. Secondly, he should not force you to do anything. That is sexual abuse, so it's good you broke up with him before it got more serious. If rumours spread, don't confirm or deny any, just tell people it is none of their business. No I do not think you did anything wrong. In fact, I think you were wise to break up with him. Just remember that you shouldn't be forced to do anything you don't want to, and when you do have sex, be safe about it: make him wear a condom, and also look into birth control.

Hope this helps.


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Quote: from Placebo Effect at 1:48 am on Sep. 22, 2009

1. He'll cum. (squirt white stuff everywhere)
2. You shouldnt do anything that you do not want to do.  
3. Yes yes you did.  
4. Nah. Say you its your personal business to do whatever you want to do in your life. And if any one else has anything to say about it they can go fuck themselves.  
5. No. You are fine. Normal to experiment with boys. Its fine. Just try to do it with someone you care about who wont take advantage of you. And someone you know who isnt gonna be a dick about it.

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Quote: from Placebo Effect at 1:48 am on Sep. 22, 2009

1. He'll cum. (squirt white stuff everywhere)
2. You shouldnt do anything that you do not want to do.  
3. Yes yes you did.  
4. Nah. Say you its your personal business to do whatever you want to do in your life. And if any one else has anything to say about it they can go fuck themselves.  
5. No. You are fine. Normal to experiment with boys. Its fine. Just try to do it with someone you care about who wont take advantage of you. And someone you know who isnt gonna be a dick about it.

Pretty much word for word what I would tell you.

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