ok you see i am engaged to the man of my dreams

unfortunately, though, his brother is the most immature, rude, tactless, and self-centered 22 year old i've ever known. seriously: 22 years old and acts like a discontented 8 year old who wants ice cream (funny i should use that example because he actually does complain and whine when he wants ice cream)

it's been like this for the whole 2 years i've been with my fiance....

he hates me too, did i mention that?

today he got mad and fussy cus i called david (my fiance) on the phone and it just so happened to be while they were in the middle of playing a video game. i'm so sorry that i dont have psychic powers to know when they are playing on a game

well, david wanted to answer cus eric (his bro) was being a butthole while playing the game. so when he answered the phone, eric threw a fit and started treating david like crap and was so entirely enraged that i called while they were playing a game

david said "he's been an ass all day. believe me i much rather talk on the phone with you than play a stupid game with him"

OMG it's gotten so bad lately with his temper that i have to purposefully avoid him because me and him WILL get in a fight if we are within 10 feet of each other for an hour or more. and everyone's always on my side when we fight so it's not like i'm the hot-headed one.

i just have to do my best to stay away from him and not explode

even when i AM away from him, he still wants to start a fight. such as me being on the phone today. we weren't even in the same city

*clenches fists*

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insanity is what keeps me sane

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I would hate the guy my sister was engaged to if she was engaged at her young age too.

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oh and i expect a lot of maturity from someone whose avatar is yours hahahaaa

anyway, me and david are doing what you call the smart thing. we are going to wait untill we're both done with college to get married

*gasp* WHAT? a young couple in love making a smart decision?????? it cant be true. i think hell just iced over

so why do you think that being engaged, at a young age (even though i'm 19 and he's 21, not 15 and 17) is so bad?

for instance......my friend got married before she graduated......now she's scronging around for money, them two barely able to support themselves.....AND their marriage is failing

me and david? a strong and in love couple encouraging each others dreams by letting each other graduate college. we've never even had sex yet. we're both virgins. why? because we dont wanna jeopardize our future

so now please. enlighten me. tell me how me being engaged is a bad thing? especially in such healthy conditions

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insanity is what keeps me sane

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He's jealous that you're taking his brother away from him.
Find him a girl, he'll be happier then.

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Quote: from OverTheAir at 9:05 pm on Sep. 4, 2008

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I would hate the guy my sister was engaged to if she was engaged at her young age too.

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um.....wow not only was your reply horibly and quite pathetically presumptuous, but it's wrong......like what are you talking about hating the guy actually engaged to your sister.....it has nothing to do with eric's sister and he doesn't hate his brother. you made no sense, i hope you realize

oh and i expect a lot of maturity from someone whose avatar is yours hahahaaa

anyway, me and david are doing what you call the smart thing. we are going to wait untill we're both done with college to get married

*gasp* WHAT? a young couple in love making a smart decision?????? it cant be true. i think hell just iced over

so why do you think that being engaged, at a young age (even though i'm 19 and he's 21, not 15 and 17) is so bad?  

for instance......my friend got married before she graduated......now she's scronging around for money, them two barely able to support themselves.....AND their marriage is failing

me and david? a strong and in love couple encouraging each others dreams by letting each other graduate college. we've never even had sex yet. we're both virgins. why? because we dont wanna jeopardize our future

so now please. enlighten me. tell me how me being engaged is a bad thing? especially in such healthy conditions

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I was clearly talking about my younger sister..comparing it to the guy you're pissed off at.. considering he has a younger sibling as well, but I guess that flew over your head.

And I don't see how my maturity has anything to do with my avatar, if anything your comment about it proves your maturity.

And I really don't care what conditions you're under. I hardly agree with marriage to begin with, never mind an engagement with children.

His brother doesn't like you for some reason and I was just stating that I wouldn't like you either if I was in his position.

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"A wise girl kisses but doesn't love,
listens but doesn't believe,
and leaves before she is left"
-Marilyn Monroe

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Quote: from pumpkin475 at 12:11 am on Sep. 5, 2008

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Quote: from OverTheAir at 9:05 pm on Sep. 4, 2008

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I would hate the guy my sister was engaged to if she was engaged at her young age too.

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um.....wow not only was your reply horibly and quite pathetically presumptuous, but it's wrong......like what are you talking about hating the guy actually engaged to your sister.....it has nothing to do with eric's sister and he doesn't hate his brother. you made no sense, i hope you realize  

 oh and i expect a lot of maturity from someone whose avatar is yours hahahaaa  

 anyway, me and david are doing what you call the smart thing. we are going to wait untill we're both done with college to get married  

 *gasp* WHAT? a young couple in love making a smart decision?????? it cant be true. i think hell just iced over  

 so why do you think that being engaged, at a young age (even though i'm 19 and he's 21, not 15 and 17) is so bad?

 for instance......my friend got married before she graduated......now she's scronging around for money, them two barely able to support themselves.....AND their marriage is failing  

 me and david? a strong and in love couple encouraging each others dreams by letting each other graduate college. we've never even had sex yet. we're both virgins. why? because we dont wanna jeopardize our future  

 so now please. enlighten me. tell me how me being engaged is a bad thing? especially in such healthy conditions

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I was clearly talking about my younger sister..comparing it to the guy you're pissed off at.. considering he has a younger sibling as well, but I guess that flew over your head.

And I don't see how my maturity has anything to do with my avatar, if anything your comment about it proves your maturity.

And I really don't care what conditions you're under. I hardly agree with marriage to begin with, never mind an engagement with children.  

His brother doesn't like you for some reason and I was just stating that I wouldn't like you either if I was in his position.

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lol that entire response validated EVERYTHING i said in my response. thank you. lol

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..or not.

I can't believe you actually have the nerve to call others immature

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"A wise girl kisses but doesn't love,
listens but doesn't believe,
and leaves before she is left"
-Marilyn Monroe

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Quote: from OverTheAir at 9:05 pm on Sep. 4, 2008

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I would hate the guy my sister was engaged to if she was engaged at her young age too.

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um.....wow not only was your reply horibly and quite pathetically presumptuous, but it's wrong......like what are you talking about hating the guy actually engaged to your sister.....it has nothing to do with eric's sister and he doesn't hate his brother. you made no sense, i hope you realize

oh and i expect a lot of maturity from someone whose avatar is yours hahahaaa

anyway, me and david are doing what you call the smart thing. we are going to wait untill we're both done with college to get married

*gasp* WHAT? a young couple in love making a smart decision?????? it cant be true. i think hell just iced over

so why do you think that being engaged, at a young age (even though i'm 19 and he's 21, not 15 and 17) is so bad?  

for instance......my friend got married before she graduated......now she's scronging around for money, them two barely able to support themselves.....AND their marriage is failing

me and david? a strong and in love couple encouraging each others dreams by letting each other graduate college. we've never even had sex yet. we're both virgins. why? because we dont wanna jeopardize our future

so now please. enlighten me. tell me how me being engaged is a bad thing? especially in such healthy conditions

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Quote: from pumpkin475 at 12:20 am on Sep. 5, 2008

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lol that entire response validated EVERYTHING i said in my response. thank you. lol

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..or not.  

I can't believe you actually have the nerve to call others immature

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"I was clearly talking about my younger sister..comparing it to the guy you're pissed off at.. considering he has a younger sibling as well, but I guess that flew over your head. " hahaha ok. you did not "clearly" state that. you put it up there without any explanation AND you added the word "too" at the end meaning you wer referring to what i said in my post

"And I don't see how my maturity has anything to do with my avatar, if anything your comment about it proves your maturity. " no it's pretty immature to hate people just cus of silly reasons like the one you have. its a very immature thing. and yes i think that avatar is rediculous.....makes me take you less seriously. it's my own personal thing. to display things of such a sexual nature shows a "horndogginess" and i find that immature

"And I really don't care what conditions you're under. I hardly agree with marriage to begin with, never mind an engagement with children.  " children...uh huh. i just got off my pacifier last weak and david just got potty trained. mhmm. [/sarcasm] anyway, you need to rethink the idea of marriage. it's pretty beneficial (the happy marriages, that is) and you'll realize that if you do research

"His brother doesn't like you for some reason and I was just stating that I wouldn't like you either if I was in his position. " once again proving my point. you're closing your mind off to any idea other than your own, your disliking someone for an extremely stupid reason, and confirmed that i was right to reply the way i did in the first place to you

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insanity is what keeps me sane

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once again proving my point. you're closing your mind off to any idea other than your own

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You're doing the same thing then dear.

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to display things of such a sexual nature shows a "horndogginess" and i find that immature

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Lololol, and you're calling me close minded?

+ you can't even spell.. it's rIdiculous.

Just let me know when your relationship with David ends..because I'm not dealing with you anymore.

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"A wise girl kisses but doesn't love,
listens but doesn't believe,
and leaves before she is left"
-Marilyn Monroe

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Quote: from pumpkin475 at 12:31 am on Sep. 5, 2008

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once again proving my point. you're closing your mind off to any idea other than your own

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You're doing the same thing then dear.  

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to display things of such a sexual nature shows a "horndogginess" and i find that immature

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Lololol, and you're calling me close minded?

+ you can't even spell.. it's rIdiculous.

Just let me know when your relationship with David ends..because I'm not dealing with you anymore.

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" Lololol, and you're calling me close minded?

+ you can't even spell.. it's rIdiculous. "

ok me thinking that someone displaying sexual acts is perverted is not closeminded......especially if the person is doing exactly what i said: displaying sexual acts.  

oh and just so you know, in case you were under some misunderstanding of some sort, this is what you call the internet. we're on what you call a teen and college forum. many people type informally. and many people accidentally misspell words without realizing because of the speed of the typing, whether out of accident or ignorance.

if you can prove to me that you never once mispelled a word in your life, i might take you a tad bit more serious in you arguments. but i doubt you can do that. close minded? nope....just realistic.

i'm going to bed

any of your rebuttals will be responded to on my next log-on

Post edited at 9:49 pm on Sep. 4, 2008 by pumpkin475

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insanity is what keeps me sane

Realistic? That's a good one.

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"A wise girl kisses but doesn't love,
listens but doesn't believe,
and leaves before she is left"
-Marilyn Monroe