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Replies: 11 — Last Post Sep. 4, 2008 5:25pm by junkielik77
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But I REALLY need help, and I got no answers before.

Here is my post, which I posted Anonymously before:

At my school, I tried to start a Writing club, but this other girl had the same idea as me. Because of that, and the fact that we can't create the same club twice, we had to partner.

To put it simply (and harshly, which I apologize about) she is very strange. "She" also has excessive body hair, meaning, a beard, and a mustache. And smells.

People are actually interested in our club, but they are STAYING AWAY because of her.

She is my co-president. If I forced her to step down, then we'd probably have about 50 people coming. Right now, we only have 10, and I think we will loose them.

So what do I do? Either way, if it doesn't improve, I'm going to call it quits.

But should I, in a last ditch effort, tell her straight up that she is DISCOURAGING people from coming to the club? Try and force her out?

Idk.   Everyone I've talked to refuses to come to the club because of her. But it's a bit cut throat to throw her out.

Help?

Please help me. I need to do something as soon as possible. Meaning, before next week.

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Cawhax

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Why not just tell people to grow up.

Or start your own club with the people that want to join, and leave her out. Just don't tell her.

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Tell everyone who isn't coming because of her to stop being shallow fuckwits rather than making her feel like shit?
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Sit her down and tell her to shave and bathe. :D

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Tell her to shave the beard and stach, shower. Or tell her she's out.

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Quote: from ilovebobthesheep at 4:38 pm on Sep. 4, 2008
Tell everyone who isn't coming because of her to stop being shallow fuckwits rather than making her feel like shit?

But I happen to like those people.

You don't know her in real life. She's appalling.

Are you really standing up for a girl with a beard, a mustache, and who smells?

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lol tll her to shave

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LEONIDOS

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has she done anything wrong

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Quote: from Cawhax at 4:38 pm on Sep. 4, 2008
Why not just tell people to grow up.

Or start your own club with the people that want to join, and leave her out. Just don't tell her.

I just said I can't. I can't create another Writing Club. It's this one, or no club.

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Quote: from junkielik77 at 4:40 pm on Sep. 4, 2008
Quote: from Cawhax at 4:38 pm on Sep. 4, 2008
Why not just tell people to grow up.  

 Or start your own club with the people that want to join, and leave her out. Just don't tell her.

I just said I can't. I can't create another Writing Club. It's this one, or no club.


usually im not like this
but
take a tip from house
go with cut throat bitch :]

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Quote: from junkielik77 at 12:39 am on Sep. 5, 2008
Quote: from ilovebobthesheep at 4:38 pm on Sep. 4, 2008
Tell everyone who isn't coming because of her to stop being shallow fuckwits rather than making her feel like shit?

But I happen to like those people.

You don't know her in real life. She's appalling.

Are you really standing up for a girl with a beard, a mustache, and who smells?

You're not running a modelling club. How she looks or smells or whatever shouldn't stop people joining.

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Quote: from ilovebobthesheep at 4:45 pm on Sep. 4, 2008
Quote: from junkielik77 at 12:39 am on Sep. 5, 2008
Quote: from ilovebobthesheep at 4:38 pm on Sep. 4, 2008
Tell everyone who isn't coming because of her to stop being shallow fuckwits rather than making her feel like shit?
 

 But I happen to like those people.  

 You don't know her in real life. She's appalling.  

 Are you really standing up for a girl with a beard, a mustache, and who smells?

You're not running a modelling club. How she looks or smells or whatever shouldn't stop people joining.

Are you being serious? So we should all join a club run by someone who clearly has issues with personal hygiene.

She's nice, and there's nothing wrong with her personality.

But she has a beard, a mustache, and she smells. Are you saying there is something wrong with human nature, as in, being put off by this?

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