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TigressaLynnMae
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 Being a virgin BY CHOICE does relate because one of the many assumptions a girl can make about a virgin guy is that he is a virgin because he has no luck with girls, nobody likes him, he's gay, etc. I have heard all kinds of stuff. That is why I have mentioned that its not really THAT necessary to tell a girl about it.
The reason it may be necessary is that it would signify inexperience, and places where the other party, experienced as they may be, may have to teach the lacking party. I know my guy knew I was a virgin, by choice, because I told him, that way, he knew where I would fault, and where I would need help. Again, the assumptions those girls make are based upon petty media and stereotype. Those girls don't exist, in my world, thank the Goddess Above. No, virginity does not matter to me. Virginity is just virginity. I lost mine, to a great guy, and, even though he hurt me, and didn't love me, as I love him, I don't regret it. Now, though, I wouldn't have sex, with anyone that didn't love me back, as I loved them,but the past is the past. You can't change it. Why would anyone look down on anyone who decides to wait? Gods, I would hate to live where you live, where ignorant people reside, apparently...
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JellyBean1
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Being a virgin is not bad. If she likes you it shouldnt bother her. It should be fun, she gets to teachs you something if she isnt a virgin.
Somehow just start talking about someone else sex life, and then at a good time, just some say that you are a virgin, just make sure she doesnt think its cuz you couldnt get it..its that you didnt want to at the time!
Sometimes its good to say that you were waiting for someone great and that you rly like, and that you like her and dont want to lose her over this.
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nik1
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Drop your ego and you will find out just how charming you are to girls. There is no replacement for honesty. Once you start living your life and dealing with truth, as not a flaw, your entire life will have a revolutionary meaning change. It is so refreshing to look someone in the eyes and say, "As difficult as this is to tell you I have never had sex before." "In fact you are the only girl that I have ever felt this comfortable with(only if true)....hope you accept me for who I am."
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5:07 am on Sep. 6, 2008 | Joined: July 2007 | Days Active: 695
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Lillylove
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If I was with a boy and we were leading up to or about to have sex, the most I would want him to say is that he hasn't had a lot of experience. I don't need to know that he is a virgin and has never been in a girl before. This way I know that I need to help and lead him on and tell and show him what to do. I merely say "This is what I like or the way I like you to do it". Let him keep his masculine image and dignity.
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1:07 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2006 | Days Active: 447
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lucky015
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All my girl had to say wen i told her i was basically a virgin is "Well, Lets fix that then" and thats where all the fun began =)
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TigressaLynnMae
Soothsayer
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I was a virgin, when I met my guy, and I told him that, not because he needed to know, but because with that, he could teach me the ways of sex, and guide me along that path, and help me out, where and when I needed help. :)
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RachLeigh13
Pushing the Shine
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If a guy I were dating told me he was a virgin, I'd pretty much be flattered. There's nothing to freak out over. If she's in to you, I don't think she'll care. You'll know when to tell her. Honesty is very attractive.
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Just because a heart is broken
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7:45 am on Sep. 10, 2008 | Joined: June 2003 | Days Active: 2,066
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