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I think a lot about being a father
Replies: 8 — Last Post Sep. 8, 2008 1:52pm by Natsy
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About how great I would want my son or daughter's life to be and how I would do every single thing I could to give them that and how active and careful I would be in my parenting, trying to give them as many skills and tools as I can to help them succeed, and it makes me sad that largely because of how I was raised to deal with life I won't be able to do any of that.

Can any of you guys feel what a parent's unconditional love might feel like? I mean from the giving end, not the receiving.

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I totally think i am capable of giving it. I want to be a mother very badly.



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Quote: from barnabas at 9:53 am on Sep. 8, 2008
I totally think i am capable of giving it. I want to be a mother very badly.  

Yeah me to i'm really looking forward to it

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I do think about it but think it would be tough right now.  I would be able to get up to the challenge though.

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Thats expected as a father.  A lot of people see it as feed them, change their diapers, almost like they are a chore, they never talk about just spending time with them.  A lot of people until they have a kid, think its boring to just hang out with a baby because they can't do the same things they can.

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It would be tough right now.  I could give it fully in a few years.

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Not sure what it would feel like. I used to never want children, but since being with my bf and having a discussion with him about babies, it changed my mind. I want to be a great parent. I want to teach them about everything early, make sure they know about things such as sex, drugs, smoking etc...instead of them finding out other ways. And I'd want them to come to me to talk about feelings and such, cause my parents never did that. They were more like "Shut up and deal with it". Which doesn't work, cause doing that drove me insane.

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Yeah I think that, from time to time. And it's a set of feelings rather than just thinking about it.

And PS I think you can. Maybe with blips of interference but you can.

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you now what they say about the best laid plans...

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