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hating myself for being homosexual.
Replies: 11Last Post Sep. 3, 2008 11:20pm by thesillyasian
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( joliefan )

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so im pretty sure im lesbian...and i just dont know its crazy...
i found myself being attracted to girls my freshman yr of high school and its been the same ever since...
ive gone out with many different guys and done sexual things with men but i see men as just friends...and the thought of being intimate with guys seems like its just something to do.....not something that feels real for me...
i have chemistry with men in a friends sort of way...but past that nothing pans out and mainly because i have no desire to be with them sexually.....
i can go out on a date with a guy...and say it was okay...and be completely fine with never talking to him again....and ive dated plenty of guys....
whereas if i go out with a girl and im liking her...i want to talk to her again as soon as possible....and i know whether i like her on the first date...and if its alot then oh boy im so excited.....but with guys its not the same.....i really could care less.

so im talking to this girl...and i really like her ALOt.
and my family does not support me having feelings for women....
and all i kno is if they find out and take her away from me...
i dont know what im going to do....
help please anyone?
am i really gay?

why are things so difficult...ive tried so hard to force myself to like guys and get excited about them and it just doesnt work.


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There is nothing wrong with being homosexual. Just be yourself.

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ppl are different!

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Why the hate?

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Dont =( it happens its not like u can help it and hating urself for it is pointless.

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Your young. Im young. We question and struggle with the feelings. Maybe for right now since your family doesnt know, you should keep it casual. But if you do start dating, they dont have to know unless you tell them. And before you start anything, you need to relax a little and not worry over this so much. Nervousness makes all the good feelings go down the toilet. I wouldnt question the fact that you like girls, or prefer girls, but this doesnt really make you gay. And you dont have to decide anytime soon.

Im sorry its so difficult

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Do not worry about what others think. Just do what you think it right, and whatever makes you happy. In the end, it is YOUR happiness.

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Your family doesn't run your life, if you like girls, then you like girls. it's really no one's buisness who you love or like or are attracted to.

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ReesesLuverx3


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yes, it seems like you are. you are just in a denial stage right now.. from what ive heard from all my gay friends is that theey all went through denial.. trying to change it.. but you simply cant. youll just have to try and explain to your family and hope they can love to love you anyways.

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Just do it my dad hates me for being les but im going to love whoever the hell i want

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im sorry i feel ya im soo attracted to the female body guys just really get my hot like i can do it . im so glad i read this like it made me understand myself a little bit better thanks. just dont let your parents find out and dont talk about her that much. secrets are fun trust me and there better.

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if u like her, go for it...nothing's wrong with being gay...

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