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I'm in love with this girl.
And I'm a girl?
Replies: 4Last Post Sep. 6, 2008 11:28am by Corrupted Innocence
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Okay... so Since about May of last year I've had it pretty bad for this girl that also happens to be one of my best friends. Well this school year she seems like she feels the same way sometimes. Only I know that there's probably a 15% chance that she sees me in that way... But I don't want to talk to her or ask her about it because it could ruin our friendship.. I don't and never have felt this way for any other girl before.. so I'm also debating my sexuality as well as my serious infatuation with her. She's always slapping my butt and giving me hugs and such and she always says stuff that sounds like she HAS to know that I like her like that... but I don't know.. I really want to ask her about it, but then again, I'm afraid. Plus, I have a boyfriend I may be getting back together with soon and I don't want to get back with him never knowing what could've happened between she and I.... Help. :(

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I think you should just talk to her and get it out....if nothing comes out of..it then friends is just aswell sometimes  

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What would God want you to do?

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tell her how you feel?
sounds like even if she doesn't reciprocate that she wont mind.

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I know you don't want to talk to her however you know that it's the best and most logical thing, I suggest that you just try it might be difficult at first but it will be better for you in the end. Then you can know for sure whether or not anything could/would happen with the two of you and go from there. To be honest you don't want to regret not taking the chance because that will be what ends up happening.

Just talk to her and tell her you like her in the sense of more than friends and see where the conversation leads. Tell her that you feel she knows that you like her because she's been acting in such a way to make you feel that it's all mutual feelings involved.

I know it's not easy when questioning your sexuality however you can't know for sure until things seem right with the two of you. Also you didn't say if you ever felt that you had feelings for other girls, because that might give you indication. Guys and girls are so different, my personal experience of just getting off with a girl is so different to getting of with a guy, it's something unexplainable but you might think it's best that you do try things before thinking of getting back with a boyfriend you've been with previously because who knows it might feel like being with a girl is right. It's all about feeling comfortable with the person you are with. If you haven't had feelings for other girls it might just be one girl who you feel such a connection with, I've heard it before the some people go out with same sex once and it's because it was only the person they feel in love with, it wasn't about their gender.

Like i said about the boyfriend, you don't want to get back with him knowing that you haven't even given being with this girl a chance because you never know it might be a turning point for you, seeing as how you've never been with a girl it will let you know if you like them and should question your sexuality further. Take the opportunity whilst you have it and then you won't have anything to regret.

Good luck and if you want to talk about it further my inbox is open if you want to talk.

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