My girlfriend really needs to see someone about her problems. I really wish there was something I could do but I have so much trouble connecting to people on an emotional level and watching her move from being just fine to an emotional wreck at least ten times a day and not being able to do anything just hurts. Especially if it is something I have done in the past that she is uncomfortable with. I can't change that so all I can do is just sit there and watch her cry. She is also so jealous of other girls, it seems like every girl she see's is out to get me and everywhere we go I *have* to hold her hand so all the other girls in the area know I'm hers. She has also been through a lot of abuse and because of that I can't do anything seemingly normal because it makes her uncomfortable. I really don't think our relationship is going to work out but I can't break up with her because she has told me that she might go suicidal, I can't talk to her parents about it because they live in a different state while she is staying with me (and in all honesty I don't think they will believe me or care) But this relationship has put me through so much stress because of the emotional demand. I just need to get her to see that in order to be happy she doesn't need me and that life without me won't be the end of the world. Then maybe she will see that we just aren't right for each other.
So I have about $400.00 in my bank account, not much for counseling but I have to *try* to help her and I have no idea what type of counseling I should be looking for. Does anyone have any suggestions?
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