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Problem with best friend
relating to fuck buddies
Replies: 8 — Last Post Oct. 7, 2008 9:59am by underoosboy
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My best friend (who is a guy) asked me if I would be interested in being his fuck buddy, me being an open minded guy (however i do consider my self straight, ive done stuff with guys though) said i would think about it. For me the issue is not sex itself, but sex with him, since we best friends and all. He has an awesome body so it not the physical, more the emotional I'm worried about.

Im babbling dont really know how to put this.

What do you guys think?

5:57 am on Oct. 4, 2008
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If you consider yourself straight, there shouldn't be emotional connections with him... but having sex with your friends always gets complicated.

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let him fuck you hard. lol idk.

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You aren't straight, you are bi ^-^

If it makes you feel uncomfortable, guess not.

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Saharah


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are you basically worried that it could hurt the friendship? basically being fuck buddies with a friend, let alone a best friend is probably asking for trouble, i would advise against it.
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 If it were me I would be worried too.

Maybe there would be questions you would like to think about before deciding.

 Do you think anything will happen after you guys have sex or it will be forgotten? Do you think it will affect your friendship? Would things get awkward? Or are you confident that nothing would happen?

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scousemouse


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two ways of looking at it..... A. you can trust him thuroughly. but B. havin friends with benefits normally messes up the friendship.

i'd say no, too much to loose.

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Well do you feel like you want to have sex with him?
That's what you have to ask yourself, and be honest. But in my experience relationships with close friends can end up in a mess and you might lose him. So just bear that in mind.

And if you've done things with guys before then you are probably bi. But think about whether it would make your friendship uncomfortable or awkward in any way.

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underoosboy


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well to me this sounds like an awesome situation, and id love to have a guy fuck buddy (well maybe not fuck, i aint ready for anal...suck and jack, definitely).  

BUT, i thinnk u got some good advice from other LW members...sounds like some of them are even talking from experience.  

But ME, hells yeah i wud jump at this opportunity.

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