LiveWire Network Peer Answers Peer Support Teen Forums Tech Forums College Forums 400 users online 211513 members 602 active today Advertise Here Sign In
TeenCollegeTechPhotos | Quizzes | LiveSecret | Memberlist | Dictionary | News | FAQ
Member Spotlight
Chasey
Peeves: Gay people
Mood: Frustrated
You have 1 new message.
Emergency Help
Until you sign up you can't do much. Yes, it's free.

Sign Up Now
Membername:
Password:
Already have an account?
► Invite Friends
► Active Members
► Groups
► Contests
Moderators
4 online / 21 MPM
Fresh Topics
  LiveWire / Teen Forums / Teen Stress & Anger Management / Viewing Topic

My mom fears me...
Replies: 11 — Last Post Oct. 5, 2008 5:34pm by IceTeaEdwin
Welcome to LiveWire!
We're Stronger Together. 		Join the Community
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite
( Anonymous )

Reply
My mom is afraid of me and I really don't know what to do about it. She fears me because I am the "strong, silent" type and she thinks I am psychotic and bound to break at any minute. Anyone else have this problem? I already have self confidence/self image problems and these just worsen it. How do I deal with it?
5:25 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
Everlongx


Connoisseur 		Reply
Tell her.

-------
The grand essentials of happiness are:
something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.
5:26 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 | Joined: Oct. 2007 | Days Active: 207
Join to learn more about Everlongx Indiana, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 4,110 | Points: 6,555
Lilly0112


Dairy Product Addict 		Reply
You can talk to her about it.Or try acting all soft and child like when you are with her. Such as hugging her.
5:27 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 | Joined: July 2008 | Days Active: 105
Join to learn more about Lilly0112 Oregon, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 570 | Points: 1,733
Riot


Wealthy Hobo
Ad Free 		Reply
What?
I WANT my mom to fear me.
Try being more sensitive and kind, ask for a puppy, but DON'T KILL IT.
5:27 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 | Joined: May 2008 | Days Active: 88
Join to learn more about Riot Florida, United States | Asexual Female | Posts: 2,587 | Points: 4,379
( Anonymous )

Reply
Quote: from Lilly0112 at 5:27 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
You can talk to her about it.Or try acting all soft and child like when you are with her. Such as hugging her.

Not in my nature
5:27 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
switchfoot52

Visionary 		Reply
stop being mean to her

-------
party hardy, rock and roll. party like a rockstar!!!!
5:29 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 | Joined: Sep. 2008 | Days Active: 49
Join to learn more about switchfoot52 Wisconsin, United States | Bi-curious Female | Posts: 7,671 | Points: 8,321
IceTeaEdwin


Soothsayer
Ad Free 		Reply
Lulz...people that don't know me, after I talk to them and we get along, tell me that...they somehow get this vibe that I'm not to be touched or looked at at all.

What I did to fix my low self-image and confidence levels was: I became friends with nice people that would boost my image, I keep thinking about the things that make me ME and cool, I bettered myself with knowledge on things that interested me...to boost my morale.

You could try those things before you try the "just go out and talk to people" idea...you need things in common to talk to people so that they won't think you are weird or hitting on them.

-------
☻/
/▌
/ \
5:29 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 | Joined: Mar. 2008 | Days Active: 269
Join to learn more about IceTeaEdwin Texas, United States | GLBT Ally Male | Posts: 7,587 | Points: 12,105
tell me again


it's a face
Patron 		Reply
How about suggesting some thoughtful things.. like grabbing brunch together on a Sunday morning? Or ask her how her day was. You might just have to do it once or twice for her to stop get over being paranoid about you.

How 'fearful' is she anyway?

5:30 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 | Joined: June 2006 | Days Active: 722
Join to learn more about tell me again Australia | Label Free Female | Posts: 16,033 | Points: 31,361
( Anonymous )

Reply
Quote: from IceTeaEdwin at 5:29 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
Lulz...people that don't know me, after I talk to them and we get along, tell me that...they somehow get this vibe that I'm not to be touched or looked at at all.

I get this too. People tell me I give off a really bad vibe and give off some of the coldest stares. My friends call me Micheal Scofield lol.

5:31 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
( Anonymous )

Reply
Quote: from tell me again at 5:30 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
How about suggesting some thoughtful things.. like grabbing brunch together on a Sunday morning? Or ask her how her day was. You might just have to do it once or twice for her to stop get over being paranoid about you.

How 'fearful' is she anyway?

She has started avoiding any type of conversation or contact with me. I am only 17.

5:32 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
IceTeaEdwin


Soothsayer
Ad Free 		Reply
Quote: from tell me again at 7:30 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
How about suggesting some thoughtful things.. like grabbing brunch together on a Sunday morning? Or ask her how her day was. You might just have to do it once or twice for her to stop get over being paranoid about you.

How 'fearful' is she anyway?

Pff, we don't need no momma time.  So long as she stops telling us that she's scared, is all good.

-------
☻/
/▌
/ \
5:33 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 | Joined: Mar. 2008 | Days Active: 269
Join to learn more about IceTeaEdwin Texas, United States | GLBT Ally Male | Posts: 7,587 | Points: 12,105
IceTeaEdwin


Soothsayer
Ad Free 		Reply
Quote: from Anonymous at 7:31 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
Quote: from IceTeaEdwin at 5:29 pm on Oct. 5, 2008
Lulz...people that don't know me, after I talk to them and we get along, tell me that...they somehow get this vibe that I'm not to be touched or looked at at all.  

I get this too. People tell me I give off a really bad vibe and give off some of the coldest stares. My friends call me Micheal Scofield lol.

They say I look like if I'm angry! XD
But that's just my sexy eyes :(

They just call me a ninja...but it's all good >->

-------
☻/
/▌
/ \
5:34 pm on Oct. 5, 2008 | Joined: Mar. 2008 | Days Active: 269
Join to learn more about IceTeaEdwin Texas, United States | GLBT Ally Male | Posts: 7,587 | Points: 12,105
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite

Quick Reply

You are signed in as our guest.

Looking for something else?
 

  LiveWire / Teen Forums / Teen Stress & Anger Management / Viewing Topic

© 2000-2009 LiveWire Peer Support Network
Custom Web Hosting | Teen Advice | Peer Support