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should i tell him?
Replies: 10Last Post Oct. 6 2:50pm by Kirsikka
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Grasshopper
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i grew up with not the best start in life. i used to get abused as a young child and i am scared that whoever i let in close to me, is going to do the same. i fell i cant tell my partner this as i dont want it to brake us. but another part of me thinks that i should tell him as i may make us stronger and he has a right to know. i havn't been with him long, only about 4 weeks i just dnt knw if i should tell him now or wait for a few months.   http://img.golivewire.com/emoticons/sorry.gif
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can someone pleaeee help me / give me some advice

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Crackbuddy


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i think you should wait,
and find the perfect time
to tell him.

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DanniM45


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Yeah I say wait a little while until your'e sure

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caq123


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Quote: from Crackbuddy at 11:36 am on Oct. 6, 2008

i think you should wait,
and find the perfect time
to tell him.


^^^THIS^^^

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switchfoot52

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i haven't told anyone about my childhood. i haven't even confronted my parents about it

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Grasshopper
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thanks everyone. but he has asked me why i am so scared to show affection or let him get close (liek i have a barriar which i do) but i just couldnt tell him. he had a go at me and i thought histror would repeat itself but it didnt. i think then he got where i was coming from and he just held me and said he would never hurt or let harm come to me which was nice a re assuring. i just dont think i am ready still. (:

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keilani


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well you should tell him but not right now when your together for a month or two then yeah but if your guys are already together than tell him

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goth101


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i'd wate a little bit longer

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ajakana

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Wait for like 3 or 4 months to tell him he can't say that he will never hurt you because you will eventually getinto an argument with him and he will hurt you feelings, but he can protect you I am the same way but I don't have a man and I don't even want a friend that's how afraid I am of guys, I don't know if I will overcome this because every guy I've known abused me even when dating a guy so for me I say wait when you feel like telling him but just don't tell him everything

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para que haces eso?

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Grasshopper
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i dnt think i could stomach telling him everything.
there is just so much - and i have been in a violent relationshp before and it wasnt nice.. i was stuck in it and it tuck alot to get my out of it.
it led to several of my family member going to prison - i just dont want to get hurt by being hurt if that makes sense?

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Kirsikka


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Wait until it you know your partner better and then tell? Or whenever it feels good to tell.

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