My boyfriend and I have been together since we were freshmen in high school, we are currently seniors... So, we've been through A LOT! But, I'm getting a bit fed up with his bullshit. I mean, I love him to death, but there has to be some point where I boil over, which brings me to yesterday...

Five o'clock in the morning, one of my really close friends calls me up stating that she saw my boyfriend in a club with another girl. Which wouldn't have been a big problem because he has a lot of girls who are friends, and I knew he was at the club anyway. BUT... She claimed to have seen him holding hands with this girl, dancing all up on her, and was just by strictly her the whole entire time. Take note that my friend ISN'T the only one who told me this. I had HIS FRIENDS tell me the same.

Now, my boyfriend has kind of messed me over a few times before with other girls, so it's easy to believe that he was doing what they said... So, we kind of got into an argument. Then, to me, he said the lowest thing that I could think of... I never thought he would say this... "You're nothing, and never will be anything, without me!"

That hurt.

After that, I told him to erase my number, not to text or call me, or anything... Now I'm just kind of upset not knowing what to think, or do about this whole little issue because I really do love this boy...

Girls (or guys), help? Opinions? Advice? Is what I did right?

Anyways :D
Have your friends invite you to hang out and hunt for other guys.

Good hunting :)

It also helps to not wonder about the ex.

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I shall pray to the almighty Dave Mustaine tonight for your safety.

If someone said that to me, I'd deck them. Seriously, that guy is an asshole. Don't give him the satisfaction of returning to him-- he's a moron.

And I know inevitably he'll come back and be like oh I didn't mean it but the truth is he was all up on another girl and really doesn't give a shit what you think.

I sense the beginnings of an abusive relationship. That's how lots of them start.. you're together so long, you love them and it doesn't matter if they're completely horrible to you, you know that you have so much history and so much invested in the relationship already that you just shrug it off. Don't shrug it off. He lost his chance.

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Educators destroy your brain,
but you don't know, so why care?
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