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My boyfriend is one of the sweetest, gentlest guys I know. We recently had a fight, and afterward, we ended up having angry makeup sex. Even though it was totally consensual and I was loving it, because it was much more angry and forceful than usual, he was terrified afterward that he'd coerced or raped me somehow, simply because it was so different than what we usually did. How do I reassure him that not only was it consensual, but that it was awesome and I want more?
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pumpkin475
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------- insanity is what keeps me sane
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Justins Luvmuffin
Executive
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GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN DUDE.
------- Ciera - "You can sit here and cry over it..or you can go to his house and fix it."
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Roy
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Quote: from Justins Luvmuffin at 1:34 am on Oct. 7, 2008
GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN DUDE. 
ROFL ROFL ROFL the mods, they warned me
------- listen to what i mean not what i say cuz i be pwning noobs every single day
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10:35 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 | Joined April 2006 | 277 Days Active Join to learn more about Roy California, United States | Straight Male | 7403 Posts | 3604 Points
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NeedtoKnow
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The sex was probably fueled by emotion, and will most likely be very difficult to replicate without the nessecary emotions. You can tell him that you really enjoyed it rough, but I doubt it will be the same.
------- Once again, an epic mystery has been solved by common sense.
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switchfoot52
Visionary
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keep telling him u love it and want to do it again. tell him u love him even more now
------- party hardy, rock and roll. party like a rockstar!!!!
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Finger Paint
Quality Control Engineer
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Be rougher with him? Purposely make him angry every time before sex until he believes you?
------- "Hello, my name is Inigo Montoya; you killed my father; prepare to die." ~Inigo Montoya, The Princess Bride
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blufindr
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Tell him you liked it and if he's really that against it, be rough with him until he gets the message.
------- [ℓiחŋie]&[вeиηy] [27.08.07]to[∞] I don't know where to begin; Well I've just arrived Now I'm locked in; and caught up in your mixed up world.
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BeX2506
Dairy Product Addict
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Sit down and talk it through with him, best thing to do is come straight out with it. You know your boyfriend so you should know the best way to convince him that it was ok. And then tell him why you liked it so much... Yeah :) x
------- Looking up into a neon sky
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10:50 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 | Joined April 2008 | 77 Days Active Join to learn more about BeX2506 England, United Kingdom | Bi-curious Female | 1101 Posts | 1835 Points
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