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Dealing with an insecure boyfriend
Replies: 13Last Post Oct. 7 12:04am by vde
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My boyfriend is one of the sweetest, gentlest guys I know. We recently had a fight, and afterward, we ended up having angry makeup sex. Even though it was totally consensual and I was loving it, because it was much more angry and forceful than usual, he was terrified afterward that he'd coerced or raped me somehow, simply because it was so different than what we usually did.

How do I reassure him that not only was it consensual, but that it was awesome and I want more?


10:33 pm on Oct. 6, 2008
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GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN DUDE.

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"I love it and I want more"

damn that's hard work.

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Quote: from Justins Luvmuffin at 1:34 am on Oct. 7, 2008

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say you liked it

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Quote: from Justins Luvmuffin at 10:34 pm on Oct. 6, 2008

GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN DUDE.

lol because he's sweet?


10:36 pm on Oct. 6, 2008
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Quote: from TheLastMagister at 10:34 pm on Oct. 6, 2008

"I love it and I want more"

damn that's hard work.


no but he doesn't by it.  he keeps convincing himself he did something wrong.


10:36 pm on Oct. 6, 2008
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The sex was probably fueled by emotion, and will most likely be very difficult to replicate without the nessecary emotions.  You can tell him that  you really enjoyed it rough, but I doubt it will be the same.

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keep telling him u love it and want to do it again. tell him u love him even more now

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Be rougher with him? Purposely make him angry every time before sex until he believes you?

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Tell him you liked it and if he's really that against it, be rough with him until he gets the message.

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Sit down and talk it through with him, best thing to do is come straight out with it. You know your boyfriend so you should know the best way to convince him that it was ok. And then tell him why you liked it so much... Yeah :) x

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well you can tell him


"... it was totally consensual and I was loving it, because it was much more angry and forceful than usual, it was so different than what we usually did.

... it was awesome and I want more? "




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