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pregnant and terrified
Replies: 28 — Last Post Oct. 3, 2008 8:25am by ZOMGimrae
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Almost two months ago I was raped by my so-called boyfriend, and yesterday I discovered that I am pregnant..

I am more terrified and lost than I have ever been before. I am only 13 years old, I literally just started high school, I am nowhere near being old enough to get any kind of job, there is absolutely no way I can support a baby... my parents are divorced and I am terrified to tell either of them because I know how disappointed and angry they will be with me, and I don't want to burden them with a child that shouldn't even be here... I am terrified to tell father of my child as well... plus, what will all the other kids at school say when they see a 13 year old, 4'7 girl walking around with a pregnant stomach?

I do not want to get an abortion because I am strongly against it... but honest to god, I just do not know what to do... I used my allowance get a pregnancy test because I have not been feeling well and a terrifying suspicion crossed my mind. When I saw that little plus sign on that tiny screen, life literally just stopped. I dropped it on the floor and I literally just stood for at least ten minutes and stared at it. Then I ran into my room and cried for what must have honestly been hours...

I wish a fairy could come and just take all my pain away.  

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-Amber

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ghostly denial


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Whoa! You need some help!
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Riot


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Try giving it up for adoption.
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Quote: from Riot at 5:01 pm on Oct. 2, 2008
Try giving it up for adoption.

No. I don't believe in that..

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angeebug13


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i wouldev bit his wewe if he tryed to rape me!

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yay babby!lets do it!
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bigredron

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you are obviously not ready for a child...
get an abortion. It does not matter what your morals are, you must not have this kid. You will end up god knows where and what sort of life is that for your child?
Also, you must tell someone about your situation. Your ex boyfriend not only had sex with a minor, he raped you. Throw his ass into jail. Be strong and turn to your parents. I would highly doubt they will disown you for being raped and ending up pregnant as a result
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HideOrSeek


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Yes, adoption. >_<'

I'm sorry.

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Mi-Re-Do-Re-Mi-Fa-Mi.

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igotaquestion


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maybe youll just mis carry your only 13

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I can see that the clostest thing to perfect
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prettyinpurple


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this made me shed a tear,
well if you were raped and you don't want the baby you should get an abortion even though you aren't for it.There's already too much pressure on your shoulders with parents/peers and school just give in.

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oh, wow!
I see you.
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MixedDelight


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If you were raped your parents will not be disappointed in you as it is NOT your fault. Your disgusting ex is at fault and he should pay for raping you. I hope you did a rape kit when he did is, so that you can sue his ass.

Also, if you want to get an education and continue your life; get an abortion :\

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Shhh, don't tell.

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BleedingSteelWings


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Quote: from bigredron at 5:03 pm on Oct. 2, 2008
you are obviously not ready for a child...
get an abortion. It does not matter what your morals are, you must not have this kid. You will end up god knows where and what sort of life is that for your child?
Also, you must tell someone about your situation. Your ex boyfriend not only had sex with a minor, he raped you. Throw his ass into jail. Be strong and turn to your parents. I would highly doubt they will disown you for being raped and ending up pregnant as a result

yes. I have some abortion rules myself that I think should be law.
1-if you did it unprotected and both consented and are pregnant then fuck you, you brought it upon yourself.
2-if you were raped you should get an abortion and throw that fucker in jail
unless you raped him then your in for it

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I know this chick
She's pretty damned amazing
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wavelength84

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Quote: from Lustx at 8:02 pm on Oct. 2, 2008
Quote: from Riot at 5:01 pm on Oct. 2, 2008
Try giving it up for adoption.  
 

No. I don't believe in that..


whats wrong with adoption?
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annabellheart


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dude im so sorry

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Quote: from wavelength84 at 5:07 pm on Oct. 2, 2008
Quote: from Lustx at 8:02 pm on Oct. 2, 2008
Quote: from Riot at 5:01 pm on Oct. 2, 2008
Try giving it up for adoption.  
 
 

 No. I don't believe in that..


whats wrong with adoption?

It just wouldn't feel right, someone I don't even know bringing up my child...

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Desertfoxel


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get an abortion before it turns a month old, i honestly dont believe in god, i use reason and thought, and following gods will is sometimes not the best thing, do what you want to do, not what god thinks is wrong, and because people who are against abortion say its like a really bad thing doesn't mean it is, if you are a fan of george carlin you will know what i am talking about.

you should tell your parents, its the right thing to do, and if you are a religious person dont forget the fifth commandment
"Honor your father and your mother..."

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who are you trying to impress with your sig?

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