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boyfriend wants me to gain weight
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( bellakaylas  )

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okay, so all my boyfriend's exes are kind of.. big. they all weigh close to 200lbs. i am 120lbs 5'4.

my boyfriend always makes references that i need to gain weight. i am self conscious enough, cause i have a belly on me. so theres no way in gods green earth that im going to balloon up to 200lbs.

he always says his exes were pretty and that they are big. he calls me pretty, but says i would be prettier if i were bigger.. i dont understand it. he was never like that in the beginning. we have been together for a year and he just started saying all this maybe 2 weeks ago. its getting annoying now.

((im not too skinny, for all those who are thinking that he's worried about my health. he wants me to gain a lot of weight))


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It sounds to me like he's got some kind of fat fetish. That wouldn't go down well with me.

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dance247


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I wouldnt for me him
your fine the way you are dont let him control you

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lovexstoriee


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this same thing happened to me.. he just wants you to be fat so he can't lose you.. he is insecure and thinks that if you're fat no one else will want you.

or maybe he just likes fatness..  

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XxKristinxX


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tell him to stfu and be happy with you

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BabiiTempa


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no u dont

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kelley187


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no dont do it.
never change for anyone.
and besides, what if u broke up?
then you'd be bigger than you'd like.

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ashley777


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umm... dont do anything to make him happy.. if he doesnt like you the way you are than you should find someone else... he should know that you dont want to gain weight and become unhealthy for him.. thats crazy

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TheStig


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Shit, you're perfectly fine now.

Don't change a thing...


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LaWhoren

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ooooooo he likes them obesee

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that sounds fuckin weird.

tell him your weight is none of his business, and that you're fine and happy and healthy the way you are.


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SilentEmoAngel


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he should like you for the way you are and all im sorry but i woulndnt gain any weight for no damn guy.

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dreamweaver



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Have you expressed your feelings to him? Tell him that you're happy of how you look and don't plan on changing like that for anyone...?

Personally, if my bf asked me such a question... I wouldn't be too happy and the relationship wouldn't last much longer, that's for sure. Not unless he stops this crap and pronto.


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penguinsrule


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tell him to fuck himself. even if he wanted you skinnier he has no right to tell you to change because HE wants you to. you be yourself and don't change unless you want to. not to mention if he loved you he wouldn't ask you to do something as unhealthy as gain a bunch of unnecessary weight

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alexisdanielle


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Does he have some...weird fetish?

Dont listen to him, lol.

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