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Relationship break

Replies: 4 — Last Post Sep. 23 2:00pm by liferocks

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( imadancinfool06 )

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Heres the thing... me and my boyfriend of almost a year are on a break right now in order for him to figure some things out with himself and his life. He is having a lot of family problems, things from his past are coming back to haunt him and because of all this stress and the fact that we were 5 hours apart the entire summer, he cheated on me over the summer... with a guy. They didnt do anything too bad... but it was still a guy nevertheless. I knew that back in middle school and a little bit of high school he had kind of been into guys but has since dated about 3 or 4 girls and truthfully been interested in all of them. So the guy thing wasnt totally out of nowhere. Anyway, all of the stress with his family and everything else was starting to show in our relationship and he told me that he didnt want to be in a commited relationship until he was happy with himself again. I understand that he needs time, but it really hurts me that we are apart. We've know each other for a lot longer then we've been dating and are each others best friends. I know we had only been dating for a year or so but i am honestly in love with him and cant imagine what it would be like if we didnt get back together. Advice?? Do i sound pathetic and clingy or do i make any sense at all???

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NooNoo22

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dw u make sense...i just duno what to suggest cuz i coudlnt forgive a cheater...x

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( imadancinfool06 )

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I didnt think i could either. But i am more understanding with him because of everything his is going through right now... some of the stuff is just horrible. Plus from what i understand he had been drinking that night. Although i am not in any way trying to justify what he did... it was really wrong and probably couldnt forgive him if it happened again.

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switchfoot52

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u need to make sense of it all. he mostly needs to do some thinking. just give him some time.

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liferocks

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you make sense... but i think it reaches a point when if he says he needs space you gotta give t to him so you dont both en up all bitter and resentful. If you love hime like you say you do you can just wait until he's ready. About the cheating... its more up to you to judge that one, if it was jjust a one time thing you can probably get past it i mean it does sound like he's having a very confused time atm anyway

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