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Rainfallen22
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god.. who are you, and are you stalking me? Seriously.... i have the EXACT same situation and im clueless as to what to do
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"If crime fighters fight crime and fire fighters fight fire,
what do freedom fighters fight?"
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Renea1993
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I'm the same way, minus the summer camp.
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sexybeest
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Message me. I'm just here to help. I will keep you anonymous too.
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nikki123
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be yourself :)
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lets go tear down a barn =D
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6:10 pm on Nov. 9, 2008 | Joined: Aug. 2008 | Days Active: 39
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LyricalAffair
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Just do what you think is right and forget everyone else.... fuck 'em and it will all fall into place.
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My best friend is SamanthaAngela
"Don't steal my toast, I need to give it to the King!"
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xoxo1234
Oh, what a catch.
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You're already on the right track to becoming more social and comfortable in situations. The fact that you already have a lot of friends means there's nothing really wrong with anything you're doing. It seems to me as if your main problem is just your self-consciousness. Believe it or not, but there are very few people who are naturally comfortable in social situations from the beginning. Those who are get their ease from practice. That's right, you're not the only one it doesn't come naturally to! The people you see around you, chatting away without a care in the world, have most likely been through exactly what you're feeling. But they got over it, because someone let them in on a little secret - if you fake confidence and ease long enough, eventually it'll begin to come naturally. Don't hold yourself back. Put your personality out there. Be friendly and open to all possibilities of new people and friendships. If you can't think of anything to say, ask questions about the other person, or compliment them. If it still seems really awkward, it could be that you two just don't have a connection, and aren't meant to be friends. Move on to the next person. To use a cliché, there are more fish in the sea! As for your current friends, it's good that you can notice that you're beginning to lose them. But hold tight! You still haven't completely broken off contact from them, and you still have a chance to save your friendships. Don't be afraid to be make the first move by texting them and asking if they want to have lunch or come over. Write them a message on Facebook saying you haven't met up in a while, and you'd like to see them soon. Don't let them slip away just yet! The effort has to come from you, and although it may seem hard to make the first move, your friends will thank you for it.
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