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need help with roomate
acting immature
Replies: 9 — Last Post Nov. 16, 2008 3:15am by nik1
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So, my roomate thinks she's a princess. Till this point, I've never confronted her about anything, because I never had a big problem with what she does. She always brings 2-3 friends over for the weekend(she lives close) and they leave a complete mess that the BOTH of us clean. She smokes pot in the room, even though she's not supposed to. Her friends always sit on my bed. She basically asks me to do things for her or with her when she needs something. Today, she was feeling sick (apparently...didn't seem sick when she was like screaming to her friend on the phone) and asked me to go to the other room to type on my computer there. I am really sick, and I said no because I wanted to stay in my comfy bed. That room is freezing. She gave me attitude. She also had a "GREAT" idea about moving the room around. I didn't like it so I politely refused to do it with her. She just slams the doors and leaves. She walks around the room making mad noises. Her friends are obnoxious. Sometimes she comes here at 3AM after a party and makes noise. I don't say anything, because I UNDERSTAND she wants to have fun. But I can't deal anymore. I need help. She thinks she can do anything, but I have to watch my steps? Hell no. How do I approach this problem without her going crazy on me? SHe really is like a child. I even thought about ratting her out to the RAs bout the pot. I don't care anymore. HELP!!!
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Tell your RA, maybe you can move rooms.

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well you should tell her how u feel and if she dosent listen go to the dean and ask to have a new roommate

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Rat her out, ask for a new roomate.

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Definitely talk to your RA about it and see what they say. If that doesn't work out, then inform them about her smoking in the room- you don't have to mention it was pot, because that could really screw her over in the long run, but that's up to you there.

Other thant that- Sounds like you should change roommates...

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have you tried making mouth noises at her

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bring a man/woman home and fuck them senceless as loud as you can while shes home. that might shut her up.

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when she is there smoking pot call the police? lol
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face the music

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get her moved
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nik1


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I think you need to request a roommate change.
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