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I hate forcing myself to be outgoing.
Replies: 20Last Post Nov. 11, 2008 8:24pm by katjassidekick
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Its scary, hard and I am not progressing anywhere.

5:53 pm on Nov. 10, 2008
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I'm sure eventually you'll see progress if you keep trying,  

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Same here. D:

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well, you have to have some motivation

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It is not scary for me, but I understand how it might be for some. Nevertheless you should not stop. The Good things in life are hard, plus what's the point of living a shell life.

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Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:54 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

I'm sure eventually you'll see progress if you keep trying,
9 months is plenty of time to see any results.

5:55 pm on Nov. 10, 2008
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same here. its hard...but i suppose it will make you happier in the long run.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 5:55 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:54 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

I'm sure eventually you'll see progress if you keep trying,  
9 months is plenty of time to see any results.

Not necessarily.

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Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:56 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 5:55 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:54 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

I'm sure eventually you'll see progress if you keep trying,
9 months is plenty of time to see any results.

Not necessarily.


3/4ths of a year is long enough to see if it is possible for someone to get friends or get a crush. Yet none of that has happened.

5:59 pm on Nov. 10, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 5:59 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:56 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 5:55 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:54 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

I'm sure eventually you'll see progress if you keep trying,  
9 months is plenty of time to see any results.

 

 Not necessarily.


3/4ths of a year is long enough to see if it is possible for someone to get friends or get a crush. Yet none of that has happened.

Why the rush? Things take time. I've been trying to get a boyfriend for the past 4 years. It still hasn't happened but I'm honestly not worried about it.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 8:59 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:56 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 5:55 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:54 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

I'm sure eventually you'll see progress if you keep trying,  
9 months is plenty of time to see any results.

 

 Not necessarily.


3/4ths of a year is long enough to see if it is possible for someone to get friends or get a crush. Yet none of that has happened.

Getting a crush is not something you try for, its just something that happens.

And as for getting friends, theres more to that than just being outgoing. Its relating to a person, etc.

Im far from outgoing, but I make friends so insanely easily. I dont even know how it happens, because I generally hate people. However, everyone seems to think we are friends and that we are like super close.

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Quote: from drifting at 8:02 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 8:59 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:56 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 5:55 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 7:54 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

I'm sure eventually you'll see progress if you keep trying,
9 months is plenty of time to see any results.

  Not necessarily.


3/4ths of a year is long enough to see if it is possible for someone to get friends or get a crush. Yet none of that has happened.

Getting a crush is not something you try for, its just something that happens.

And as for getting friends, theres more to that than just being outgoing. Its relating to a person, etc.  

Im far from outgoing, but I make friends so insanely easily. I dont even know how it happens, because I generally hate people. However, everyone seems to think we are friends and that we are like super close.


So you are going to sit here and lie to me saying that people don't try to get a relationship and it just happens? What kind of random bullshit are you trying to convey to me. People like other people for a reason. Mainly because the other person serves the purpose of satisfying the first. Not because random shit happens, but only to make yourself happier. Why else would you get into a relationship, to make the other person happy, no, to make you happy, noone else.

6:06 pm on Nov. 10, 2008
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Why are you forcing yourself?

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it will get better! =)

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Quote: from rebelmozzerella at 8:06 pm on Nov. 10, 2008

Why are you forcing yourself?
Because I got a taste of what its like to have friends and a love intrest a year ago and I want more.

6:10 pm on Nov. 10, 2008
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