Girls, would you rather have a guy ASK you to do something with you?
Or would you rather have him TELL you to do it?
Example:
Asking You - "Hey, are we going to hang out Saturday?"
Telling You - "Hey lets watch a movie and have dinner Saturday."
Is this RUDE?
How would you want a guy to ask you to hang out with him?
12:13 am on Nov. 11, 2008
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Tell. It's hot.
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tell me, i mean shoot. then he's clearly communicating that he wants to hang out, but leaving the romance ambiguous, which is comfortable.
i mean, thats like how i would talk to a friend you know? 'lets go shopping tomorrow.'
everything else listed is really clingy and weird.
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I would rather be the one telling, "We're going to see so and so movie, tomorrow." ;)
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Actually neither one is a directive. The second one is borderline but if you have been with the girl a long time I think it's ok. I typically use a gentler approach such as; "How would you like to go to a movie and dinner on Saturday?
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