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Rude How
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Replies: 6Last Post Nov. 11, 2008 11:07am by nik1
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Choice Votes Percent  
If they ask me straight up if they want to hang out, I will. But I think that seems weak. 3 16%
If they want to hang out with me, I would want them to just tell me to hang out with them without asking. 4 22%
Hey are we hanging out tonight or what? <--- This may seem bad 2 11%
Hey so are you free or do I need to text you million times? <--- This could seem needy 0 0%
Other 9 50%
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Girls, would you rather have a guy ASK you to do something with you?

Or would you rather have him TELL you to do it?

Example:

Asking You - "Hey, are we going to hang out Saturday?"

Telling You - "Hey lets watch a movie and have dinner Saturday."

Is this RUDE?

How would you want a guy to ask you to hang out with him?


12:13 am on Nov. 11, 2008
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Guys with confidence and enough balls to speak up about what they want are awsome!

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tell me, i mean shoot. then he's clearly communicating that he wants to hang out, but leaving the romance ambiguous, which is comfortable.

i mean, thats like how i would talk to a friend you know? 'lets go shopping tomorrow.'

everything else listed is really clingy and weird.

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yup...

Post edited at 12:38 am on Nov. 11, 2008 by Dass

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I would rather be the one telling, "We're going to see so and so movie, tomorrow." ;)

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Actually neither one is a directive.  The second one is borderline but if you have been with the girl a long time I think it's ok.  I typically use a gentler approach such as; "How would you like to go to a movie and dinner on Saturday?

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