hey people, OK, my friend, lets call her mickey, has always been kind if weird but happy. But since she got her first boyfriend of 5 years she's gone all weird. She tries to fit in with people and has gone all emo. And suddenly she's manically depressed even though she has a better life than most people. Before she got her boyfriend she wasn't into make-up and stuff but since she started going out with him she wears make-up and a LOT of it! Isn't relationships supposed to be the guy loves you no matter what you look like? Before any of this happened she was like writing on her bebo oh I'll never change myself or my image for anyone. Isn't wearing make-up and changing how you act, changing yourself? She's all like oh I've got so much on my plate at the moment I just want it to stop. Everyone's is sick of it she's only after attention. oh and since all her little friends said they were bisexual she's now bisexual! She thinks that if you have a boyfriend you're not bisexual during that relationship, you're straight. Thank the heavens that's off my chest.
------- This is me talking to you inside your head.
12:43 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 | Joined: Mar. 2008 | Days Active: 293 Join to learn more about princess timzEngland, United Kingdom | StraightFemale | Posts: 3,206 | Points: 6,242
LiveWire Humor
LipsOfDeceit
Wealthy Hobo
welll let her have fun trying to fit in. shes not being herself. being pathetic if you ask me.
------- each touch belongs to each new song we'll dance inside the song
12:44 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 | Joined: Aug. 2008 | Days Active: 282 Join to learn more about LipsOfDeceitEngland, United Kingdom | StraightFemale | Posts: 1,038 | Points: 4,432
Killer Tofu
Wealthy Hobo
She probably just needed a change.
------- I hate change more than i hate humid weather and frizzy hair.
12:46 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 | Joined: Mar. 2008 | Days Active: 289 Join to learn more about Killer TofuConnecticut, United States | Female | Posts: 1,624 | Points: 4,645
kooljack1
Advisor
Remind her that she said she would never change for anyone and that she shouldn't.
It's stupid
------- They're your lungs, use them or loose them. Don't smoke...
12:47 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 | Joined: July 2008 | Days Active: 12 Join to learn more about kooljack1New York, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 452 | Points: 576
Nightshade09
Dairy Product Addict
well her sexuality inst important what she should open her eyes and see is if she had to "change" who she was to please her bf then he didnt go out with her because he loved who "she" is he did it for some easy tail...sry but thats all there is to it...your her best friend you are the only one who can get through to her because she trust u the most...
------- just be yourself life is too short to pertend to be someone else...
12:48 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 | Joined: Sep. 2008 | Days Active: 45 Join to learn more about Nightshade09Texas, United States | StraightMale | Posts: 546 | Points: 1,019
Helios
Advisor Patron
Maybe there are things happening in that relationship that you know nothing about. Maybe her boyfriend is verbally abusive and tells her she is ugly and she is trying to conform herself to fit his approval. Another less possible explanation is that her boyfriend is hitting her and she wears makeup to cover it up which would explain why she is acting so depressed.
------- Livewire Rocks my Socks!!! Im gonna keep on trucking!!!
3:09 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 | Joined: Jan. 2006 | Days Active: 461 Join to learn more about HeliosNorth Carolina, United States | Label FreeMale | Posts: 880 | Points: 500