bestfriend: she seems to only hang out with me when her boyfriend is smoking weed or working.
has gone behind my back and asked my parents if her boyfriend could come over, after i said no a bunch of times, never calls me except when she's having problems or wants to know if her and her boyfriend can come over. lets her boyfriend talk to me anyway he wants, has let him smack me(jokingly, but hard) always accuses me for using her when i ask her to hangout, meaning she has to drive(since i cant yet) and lies to me saying if it means breaking up with her boyfriend to save our friendship; she will. then asking if i actually thought she meant that when it comes time that i really need her to, to save things.

me: doesnt let her boyfriend come to my house alot because we(me && her boyfriend) dont get along. cant always hangout with her because i have softball monday-saturday. has made her leave the fair 1 time because i was sick and she was my only ride home(not to mention she made me sit outside for 1 1/2 hours before we actually left) and i've lied to her 2-3 times saying her boyfriend wasnt ALLOWED to come over, but i just didnt want him over-either way, she knew i didnt like him.

honest answer please.
(i swear i left nothing out on my part) i just need to know who's wrong in the situation, so if i'm wrong, i can apoligize and save my friendship:/ but if im not, i dont even wanna bother.

Post edited at 6:06 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 by heather morghan

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missing you :(

a real friend would make time for both of you. and hang out with you without him if that's what you wanted.

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what's meant to be will always find a way (:

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