Another thing to add to my just so wonderful life.

Post edited at 5:52 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 by Let It Snow

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All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players.

E-hugs being sent your way.

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Daisy chains, Christmas plays, winter nights and summer days
Fireworks and starry skies, sunset and moonrise.
So much more to see and do, and hopefully it's all with you. ♥
seemenow1990 is worth her weight in gold.

The important thing to remember is that she won't be in pain anymore. It's so hard to watch, but at least she will be happier and feeling better. It doesn't ease the pain much, but I hope it helps.

Sometimes saying goodbye takes a while. You may hear her voice everywhere, or feel her when you go places. All that is normal. Death is a thing that is dealt with differently for everybody. You may feel yourself changing. It's all part of the process.

Don't hurt yourself or do anything of that sort. She wants you to keep moving forward. Sure, you can have your time of sadness, that's normal. But don't shut down because she did. The dead, they kept walking their whole lives. You have to pick up after her.

Stay close to your family. It may be hard to let them see you cry, but you're all crying and it's important to let your emotions out--don't bottle up. Talk to a friend, write in a journal, blast the music, get it out.

PM me anytime you want, okay? I'll listen. I know how it feels.

xxx
Stay strong.
Nora

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all the days were a sun-drenched haze
while the salt spray crusted on the windowpanes...

Stay strong, okay? You'll make it through. *hugs*