I used to hook up with a guy years ago... before I met my boyfriend. Then this guy introduced me to my boyfriend.

My boyfriend hates him because we hooked up before and we were just friends. And me and my boyfriend play in a band. This guy is in another band. And we have a friend in common, who lends us a mic. He's in the band of my "ex".

My boyfriend got pissed because that's the same mic my "ex" uses to sing (we don't have much money so people from different bands share stuff). I don't even talk to my ex. But my boyfriend is talking shit like we'll share spit again and that it's symbolic because the mic looks like a dick and I gave oral to this "ex".

I'm sorry, I'm frustrated and wanted to vent. I hate when my boyfriend is downright STUPID. How can he not see that I'm over this other guy (I don't even talk to him), and that I love him, I've been with him for two years, how can he not see that he's the one I love the one I'm into?? How can he be so stupid???

Why guys? Why do some of you get so hung up on a girl's past? We could be the happiest couple alive, but no, his fucking jealousy makes him a nag sometimes.

UGH!!!!!!!

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Argh, sounds frustrating and ridiculous. How often is he like this?

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Sometimes, he can go weeks being the sweetest guy, lavishing me with sweet words and actions... but then something triggers it (usually something he sees or hears, not something that I do)... and he gets fucking angry.

Sometimes guys get like that when they're really insecure or know that you really COULD be with someone else if you wanted to.  He's just scared of losing you, so he acts completely ridiculous.  Talk about it with him, you'll probably fight and argue, but until you can get him to trust you 100%, you're probably always going to have these stupid arguements.

The most you can do if you want to make it work is just talk about it and sort it out before the night ends...you know the old saying "never go to bed angry", well it's true.

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