Okay so I just found out that my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I don't want us to break up but I don't want to sound desperate either. I don't know what to do. Some of my friends told me to break up with him first.
What should I do??
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nadiiasorgente
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Try and work it out. Ask why he wants to break up and maybe you can change things good luck
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jsgirl
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Sex him, then dump him.
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sk8er gurl1
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um.......
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ijustdontknow
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Talk to him about it. You might have been misinformed about him breaking up with you so you dont want to jump the gun so quick.
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Killer Tofu
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Talk to him about it.
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TruexZero
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Get your cources straight first. Talk to him, tell him you heard he wanted to break up with you, and ask any questions you may have.
maybe if he does break up with you, it'll be a good thing.
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HiRyo
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Make sure your a 100% sure hes going to do it if you want to break up with him first.
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babsbunee13
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Talk to him.
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candy52094
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how did u find this out?
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marybeth 2012
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i would break up with him first.
Only because i have been used and cheated on by the one i loved with all my heart and i jsut found out i supplied him the condoms for him to cheat on me... but yeahh break up with him first.. if he has nothing to say to you when you ask him something
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princessamanda
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do not break up with him if you want to be with him .
talk to him, and ask him why he wants to break up , and seee if you guys can work things out. if not, then it happened for a reason, and there are plenty of other guys out there that would probably love to be with youuuu .
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bratalvarado
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i was in the same situation but my guy wanted to break up with me for another girl so i broke up with him. u should ask him y he wants to break up with u
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