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Replies: 17Last Post Oct. 9 3:43pm by 2kewl4u2know
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my gf and I are long distance by a few states.. and I can't go see her. I'm 15 so I have no way of getting there. I mean I love her, and I'm completely committed to her.. but I am still rly sexually attracted to other girls.. I mean I guess because Ive never met her. I talk to her all the time.. but I just feel bad for not thinking about her sexually all the time... :( Is this okay?

3:18 pm on Oct. 9, 2008
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Bahahha.
E-relationships = fail

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curious... how did you meet her?

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What.. don't date someone you haven't met over the internet.

Break up with her. Date someone in your own state.

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Quote: from katiescarlett at 3:19 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Bahahha.
E-relationships = fail

NO FUCKING WAY.


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Quote: from katiescarlett at 3:19 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Bahahha.
E-relationships = fail

ahahahaha


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If you love her as much as you say you do then you will stick it out. I am in a long distance relationship. My bf and I don't see each other much, but next year we will and thats all we are thinking about. Just keep planning ahead.

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Quote: from katiescarlett at 3:19 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Bahahha.
E-relationships = fail

agreed

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Whether you're in a long-distance relationship or you live together and are in a relationship, you're bound to see other people sexually, it just happens.  Just don't act on those thoughts while inside the relationship and you're fine.  If you want to see her in a more sexual light, then ask to do phone sex or cyber sex or video chat sex.

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First off, it's not a real relationship if you haven't met her, nor can it ever be one if you have no real plans to see her and no real way to make that happen. So that kinda kills the topic right there.

However, since you probably won't listen (or don't want to hear that) then it's perfectlly fine to be sexually attracted to someone else, it doesn't really mean anything if you're really attracted to the person you're with on a true level, and not just sexually.

Don't get too involved in this, though, since it doesn't really sound like it's going to go anywhere.


3:25 pm on Oct. 9, 2008
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everyone is sexually attracted to more than one person. The problem starts when you wish it was someone else you're talking too rather than your girlfriend. If that happens then break up with her. If not then stick it out till you're older.

Post edited at 3:28 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 by musicxmaniac

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Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 3:22 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Whether you're in a long-distance relationship or you live together and are in a relationship, you're bound to see other people sexually, it just happens.

That's not even kind of true.

Don't generalize.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 3:25 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

First off, it's not a real relationship if you haven't met her, nor can it ever be one if you have no real plans to see her and no real way to make that happen. So that kinda kills the topic right there.

However, since you probably won't listen (or don't want to hear that) then it's perfectlly fine to be sexually attracted to someone else, it doesn't really mean anything if you're really attracted to the person you're with on a true level, and not just sexually.

Don't get too involved in this, though, since it doesn't really sound like it's going to go anywhere.


You have no right to assume that. I met my bf through myspace, we talked for months online and on the phone before actually meeting up. We didn't declare ourselves as being in a relationship until we met, but we knew where we wanted to go. We have been together now for five months, and are stronger than ever. So saying a online relationship will never work out is wrong, cause I can prove that. As long as the people involved eventually meet, then I don't see any problem apart from the obvious distance.


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Quote: from BeautifulLies82 at 5:29 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 3:22 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Whether you're in a long-distance relationship or you live together and are in a relationship, you're bound to see other people sexually, it just happens.

That's not even kind of true.

Don't generalize.


It's true.  It's called lust/infatuation/attraction.  Like when you see a star in a movie and think "omg that person is hott" that's seeing the other person sexually/attracted to them.  Just because you are in a relationship with a person does not mean you no longer consider any other individual attractive.

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Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 3:34 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Quote: from BeautifulLies82 at 5:29 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 3:22 pm on Oct. 9, 2008

Whether you're in a long-distance relationship or you live together and are in a relationship, you're bound to see other people sexually, it just happens.
 

 That's not even kind of true.  

 Don't generalize.


It's true. It's called lust/infatuation/attraction. Like when you see a star in a movie and think "omg that person is hott" that's seeing the other person sexually/attracted to them. Just because you are in a relationship with a person does not mean you no longer consider any other individual attractive.


I don't go "omg they're so hot!!!!" My boyfriend keeps me pleanty satisfied.

So, still untrue.

Sorry.

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