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im scared and confused
my gf having mixed emotions
Replies: 7Last Post Oct. 9 3:27pm by BeautifulLies82
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So me and my gf have been dating for like 3 months (we were friends for like a year before that) i don't know if its too early for love but im pretty sure i love this girl to death and she feels the same. she tells me she wants to have my kid someday and live together when i graduate. and everything has been perfect for 3 months until last week. Now heres the thing.

My best friend happens to be her ex and they've dated for 2 years before me but they would fight all the time and he treated her like shit. She had a crush on me while they were dating so they broke up over some shit and me and her got together a month later.

Well she hates him and hates when i bring him around her because it brings back bad memories. She wishes that she can erase the past with him but last night she told me some shit i didnt want to here. She told me she had a bad dream that he was hitting her and she was having panic attacks all day she told me. "I love you and want to be with u forever and im not gonna dump u but i feel like we got into this relationship too quick" and she said that ever since ive been bringing him around her she cant get him out of her head and she feels like she might have some feelings still there and not know it. but she says she hates the kid and is looking forward to the future with me.

I told her that she just needs more time to forget about him but idk whats going through her head i trust her and everything but that just hurts me that she feels that way.... i wanna know from a girls perspective do you think she will get over him im confused lol


3:17 pm on Oct. 9, 2008
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Dump her.

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Wow, that's a sucky situation first of all.. I'm sorry=/. But it sounds like you two really care for each other.

I think she will eventually get over it. Just give it some time. Make sure when you're with her you really comfort her and you're there for her.. ya know.. but she will eventually get over it.

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same thing happened to me man.. but 2 years after another guy.. well in the end I got crushed.. but its okay now

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give her a chance. a girl can get over a guy.

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you know.. it may take some time to get over him.. especially since they were together for so0o long..i kinda had a relationship like hers.. and it didnt turn out so well.. but anyways.. just give her some time. be there for her when she needs you and all that gewd stuff :D

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thanks for the advice that helped a little

3:24 pm on Oct. 9, 2008
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Don't bring over your friend when she's there and vice versa.

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