For so long people saw 'chemistry' between us, one night he asked me to dance & every time he saw me hug another hug he looked jealous and would go do something with a girl!

He's had two gf's but he's never been able to let go of me, he doesn't bother with them when i'm not there it's almost to just make me jealous.. when they'd break up though he'd tell someone how great/hot i was.. or tell me how talking to me kept him happy and he didn't feel the need to talk to the ex's..

One night i admitted 'i used to like u' he said 'why do you think i always wear this shirt?' (its one i bought him) & he kissed me. We ended up sleeping together but he forgot to mention he had a gf! i said it was a mistake, he was then really horrible to me.. but when his gf wanted me dead he told her if she touched me he'd break up with her and wouldnt let anyone touch me..

I couldn't deal so i cut the friendship, now he's tried everything from breaking up with her, hanging around, wearing the shirt every night (ive ignored him through everything) he went home one night from the pub because he was sober & 'depressed', standing in the group i'm in, saying 'that girl was FIT'  randomly about some girl.. then looking moody when i didn't react..

and last week he was out with mutal friends, they heard i was at the pub so they wanted to go see me but when they got there he wernt with them. Someone asked and they said 'he didnt want to come'

i dont know if he likes me but i'm starting to think me not talking to him is maybe getting to him, what do u think?

I don't see why you two still can't be just friends.  I know you had a lot go on in the past and just cutting the friendship seemed to be the easiest fix, but i think it would be a lot easier on him if you would at least still talk to him.  You two don't have to be best friends by any stretch, but don't totally kick him out of your life.  Before anything happens though, make sure he knows that there can't be anything more than a friendship and that you don't want a boyfriend girlfriend relationship.

It might also be a good idea for you to try and encourage him to find a girlfriend.  He probably doesn't want one now because of how he feels about you, but eventually he will understand that there isn't going to be anything between you two and will want to move on.  So, just be an encourager as he tries to find someone else to fill the void.

I think your biggest mistake was sleeping with him, assuming you meant you had sex.  Sex is so much more than just something physical, it bonds two people together.  After having sex with him its going to be a lot harder for him to totally let you go and is going to take a lot longer than if you hadn't.  Sex can also cause a lot of emotion and heartache.  Just remember that for next time.

I'm sure you two are going to slowly drift apart, but for now just try and be somewhat of a friend to him to help him get over you.  I wouldn't think it would be too long for him to find someone else.  Considering your ages too, you are probably in college and he's in high school, so you two probably aren't around each other a whole lot which should help.

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