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Im soo annoyed!!!!!
Replies: 20Last Post Oct. 11 4:24pm by Sgt Reaper
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I feel like my boyfriend has been in a really bad mood and has been angry at everyone and everything, and he always takes it out on me. We had a pretty good night together. and now he's bitching on me about something stupid, as usual. He's mad because I didnt go to sleep right away when I got home like I promised. But its because i couldnt fall asleep. So now he is manipulating me, saying he will not go to sleep until I do.
I just feel so frustrated with him all the time. Im sick and tired of him taking all his issues and thoughts out on me.
Anyone have any suggestions or advice?
Thanks!

2:08 am on Oct. 11, 2008
cozysoxx


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Break up WIth Him.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 7:08 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

He's mad because I didnt go to sleep right away when I got home like I promised

what do you mean? you can't sleep on your own terms?

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aksamirae


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Tell him. and If hes yelling, its simple, just say
"Sorry hun, Yelling is reserved for girls only"

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Anonymous

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I'm her bf, and she's been sleeping only a few hours a night...she forget to mention that.

2:10 am on Oct. 11, 2008
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If he's really being that controlling, then leave him. A relationship like that will not end well.

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wereinheaven


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Quote: from Anonymous at 2:10 am on Oct. 11, 2008

I'm her bf, and she's been sleeping only a few hours a night...she forget to mention that.

Are you her father or her boyfriend???
She's not a child, let her do what she wants.


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aksamirae


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So? Its her sleep. What are you daddy?

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 It's not good that he vents out his anger at other people. I mean it's healthy to vent out your anger, but venting them out on people who did nothing is unfair.

 Tell him to stop doing it and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you can't sleep and stop telling you to, because you are not his puppet, you are not someone without feelings. When he vents out his anger on you, you are affected. You have feelings. You will be uncomfortable. He should be more considerate. If he really needs help you will be there for him and you will try to help him solve his problems, but his yelling is doing nothing. You are sick of it. Next him he does it, tell him to shut up. Tell him you are sick of it. Tell him if he talks to you nicely you are going to listen but stop yelling, stop shouting, it's not going to get anything done.

 If he is still mad, it's not your fault. It's his own problems. If you would rather help without telling him how you feel now, try talking to him in a gentle manner. When he shouts, ask him what's wrong and try to calm him down and such.

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Anonymous

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I would talk to him about why he wants you to sleep more. There's probably a reason.

Post edited at 2:16 am on Oct. 11, 2008 by Anonymous


2:14 am on Oct. 11, 2008
CherryD


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Quote: from Anonymous at 5:10 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

I'm her bf, and she's been sleeping only a few hours a night...she forget to mention that.

Tell her if she doesn't sleep she's gonna get eyebags.

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itakenbut


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well if ANONYMOUS is ur boyfriend he has a point u need to sleep BUT ONLYwen u r tired if u feel lik u get enough sleep then u do if nt tak a sleeping pill

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Quote: from Anonymous at 7:10 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

I'm her bf, and she's been sleeping only a few hours a night...she forget to mention that.

lol dude, don't get mad at her because she can't get to sleep...getting mad doesn't do anything try and help her...comfort her at least?

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aksamirae


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yeah, the same thing with my sister, except it was stress, but the best thing is just to let her be, she'll come through it when she realizes its time.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 2:10 am on Oct. 11, 2008

I'm her bf, and she's been sleeping only a few hours a night...she forget to mention that.

Pressuring her to sleep probably won't help her sleep very much.

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