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Replies: 2Last Post Oct. 16, 2008 8:27pm by Stand Up
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Before anybody reads this, know that this is a serious issue for me and i need real suggestions.

thanks.

i apologise for the length.

anyway. There has been this girl that i have been talking to recently, and she's really cool. all of my friends agree with me that its likley that she likes me.

now i finally ask her out, its all cool, a friend told me that after i asked her out she seemed really happy.

i saw her again a few minutes after, just talking about what we were doing  that night.

she was going out with a friend to dinner.

later when i was texting her she brought up that she told this friend- her turned out to be her ex- that they were on a break, and they want to start things up again, and that she told him about me asking her out- he got a bit funny, so obviously she had to cancel.

which im totally cool with.

after saying this, i then texted her saying it was all fine (reassuring her) and that i hope he knows how lucky he is, i didnt get a text back.I suspose what could you text back?

so im pretty disappointed.Im very emotional on this subject all of a sudden, like in form (she's in my form)
i couldn't look at her.even though she was looking at me.

I have this strange hunch that this isn't the end of this, i have no idea and it isnt false hope.

one thing is that when i have been involved in girls i usually dont get very bothered about it.when i think about this it makes my eyes water!

what i need help is:
do i move on?
should i change the way i talk to her?
why am i so emotional over this one girl?
I know that she may love this man, but does this mean that she may still have feelings for me?



1:06 pm on Oct. 16, 2008
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you dont need to give up so easy go after her and tell her how you fill if she still dousent notice you than try harder untill you get her back or she tells you the truth

1:10 pm on Oct. 16, 2008 | Joined: Oct. 2008 | Days Active: 7
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It seems to me that there's no point to keep your hopes up right now. You'll just end up putting yourself in disadvantage and turning into a puppet waiting for her to move you around. At least she was clear and you could keep being her friend and if in the future something happens well that's rather perfect but in the mean while just take it as lesson and move on.


You shouldn't change things with her. She was polite and informed you about her situation instead of teasing you. You should appreciate that and try to look pass the other things and be just as you were before, not more not less - if you don't want to -


8:27 pm on Oct. 16, 2008 | Joined: Nov. 2007 | Days Active: 468
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