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Not until it presents an issue or is directly asked.

It serves no purpose unless it's becoming an issue.

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I agree with this.

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I think the truth is better than lying. I mean, even if he doesn't accept this...he kinda doesn't know what he has then , u know? But yeah, go for it, let him know about how u feel bout cutting now that u dont do it.

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It's not really lying unless he brings it up and I deny it though is it?

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Quote: from freedom at 7:03 pm on Oct. 13, 2008

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You would just make him paranoid and constantly worrying about you. Is it really worth it?

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Well considering I have been talking about how I need a psychiatrist, and he knows I had one in the past, I'm not sure how he'd be worrying any more so.

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But I would see it as attention seeking, bringing up something unnecessary that would just cause other people distress. Maybe you should really think on the reasons you want to tell him.

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I'd tell him, Plus sounds like he truely cares about you. Maybe he can even help you with your feelings of wanting too. I used to cut, and i used to drink and pop a lot of pills. Now, i am 100% clean from everything after 4 years and I told my fiance everything. we been together now close to 2 years and have a wonderful baby on the way. He has helped me and stuck by my side through everything. I stopped everything when we got together. I think he would support you and it's good to get it off your chest ya know? Be honest with him :) and good luck with everything and I wish you the best

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Thanks, that honestly made the most sense out of everything

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Quote: from mendingheart518 at 7:05 pm on Oct. 13, 2008

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I'd tell him, Plus sounds like he truely cares about you. Maybe he can even help you with your feelings of wanting too. I used to cut, and i used to drink and pop a lot of pills. Now, i am 100% clean from everything after 4 years and I told my fiance everything. we been together now close to 2 years and have a wonderful baby on the way. He has helped me and stuck by my side through everything. I stopped everything when we got together. I think he would support you and it's good to get it off your chest ya know? Be honest with him :) and good luck with everything and I wish you the best

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Thanks, that honestly made the most sense out of everything

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Your mind was made up before you started this thread.

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