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 Replies: 14 — Last Post Oct. 15 4:03pm by Anonymous
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( Anonymous )
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I've had a huge crush on my friend for a long time, and she's known for nearly as long. Right now she has a boyfriend of about two and a half months. Anyway, on Sunday I got really frustrated about the situation with her, and on Myspace I posted a random bulletin saying that I was sick of having these feelings for her, knowing she was never going to feel the same way as me. Right after I posted it I thought better of myself and deleted it. Unfortunately, in the all of a 30 seconds it was up, she saw it, and got really mad at me. I can sort of understand why it would make her upset, but I don't get why it made her so mad at me. I can't imagine that she wants me to keep feeling this way about her. She doesn't feel the same, plus she's got a boyfriend. 
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runningwithscissors
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Umm.. Because you went on Myspace and posted a bulletin about it, that everyone could read?
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randomrocks
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maybe she does have feelings for you
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( Anonymous )
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Quote: from runningwithscissors at 6:22 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
 Umm.. Because you went on Myspace and posted a bulletin about it, that everyone could read? 
I guess that could be it, but still. I immediately deleted it. Plus, if I'd known she was on, I never would have posted it in the first place.
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xBlackRainbow93x
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Coz its hurtful?
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Marith
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Alright bro, this is whats up... girls want want they cant have... its natural, she knows that your going to be there to pick her up when this thing with the other dude ends... sorry to say it but your like her fallback... she might have some feelings for you but girls arnt gunna realize this kinda shit till later on, at least most... so i suggest that you dont worry about it, it will blow over. But i think she wants you to like her, its like a comforting thing to know when people like you... but i know the boat your in sucks dick cuz i was there too, theres no problem with likin her still but it doesnt mean that you cant like someone else too..... Make sence bro?
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3:26 pm on Oct. 15, 2008 | Joined Oct. 2008 | 15 Days Active
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( Anonymous )
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Quote: from xBlackRainbow93x at 6:24 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
Coz its hurtful?
Do you really think so? I mean, she's never felt the same as me, and I know she doesn't now. It doesn't seem like she would even want me to have these feelings for her.
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Boondox
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maybe she does like u but shed jus rather be with her bf
or maybe she thinks ur mad about it so shes mad about it
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Marith
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Yeah, i think this persons got it straight... It wouldve been better to talk it out with her in private... if your friends it shouldnt be awkward. and when its over the computer or texting you cat really get tone of voice so she may have mistaken it Quote: from yamihemi at 3:30 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
if she cared for you before, she might just be mad in general it may not be directly at you but girls can be over emotional, she may be mad because she liked you and now you've finally admitted to her, she would feel like your trying to stop her getting over you, she may not be directly mad at you but since she could possibly still like you that could explain why she is so mad, but thats only if she likes you it could just be she wasn't impressed that 1] choose to long to say anything 2] her boyfriend MAY have seen it 3] it was a place which anybody could have seen it and 4] because of shock and not knowing what to do just give her time to calm down then try talking to her, it may be hard but you may have to explain to her why you did what you did, and if you don't know why then i suggest beginning to think why
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3:35 pm on Oct. 15, 2008 | Joined Oct. 2008 | 15 Days Active
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( Anonymous )
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Quote: from Marith at 6:35 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
Yeah, i think this persons got it straight... It wouldve been better to talk it out with her in private... if your friends it shouldnt be awkward. and when its over the computer or texting you cat really get tone of voice so she may have mistaken it Quote: from yamihemi at 3:30 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
if she cared for you before, she might just be mad in general it may not be directly at you but girls can be over emotional, she may be mad because she liked you and now you've finally admitted to her, she would feel like your trying to stop her getting over you, she may not be directly mad at you but since she could possibly still like you that could explain why she is so mad, but thats only if she likes you it could just be she wasn't impressed that 1] choose to long to say anything 2] her boyfriend MAY have seen it 3] it was a place which anybody could have seen it and 4] because of shock and not knowing what to do just give her time to calm down then try talking to her, it may be hard but you may have to explain to her why you did what you did, and if you don't know why then i suggest beginning to think why
I said she's never felt the same way as me. I guess other than that though, it's probable.
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Marith
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I dont think she would be someone who ould come out and just tell you that she likes you cz theres no reason for her too... shes got this other guy and others before him im sure... but she at least has some reason to feel that it was worth getting mad over... if she didnt care about you at all she wouldnt have overreacted.. Quote: from Anonymous at 3:48 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
Quote: from Marith at 6:35 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
Yeah, i think this persons got it straight... It wouldve been better to talk it out with her in private... if your friends it shouldnt be awkward. and when its over the computer or texting you cat really get tone of voice so she may have mistaken it Quote: from yamihemi at 3:30 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
if she cared for you before, she might just be mad in general it may not be directly at you but girls can be over emotional, she may be mad because she liked you and now you've finally admitted to her, she would feel like your trying to stop her getting over you, she may not be directly mad at you but since she could possibly still like you that could explain why she is so mad, but thats only if she likes you it could just be she wasn't impressed that 1] choose to long to say anything 2] her boyfriend MAY have seen it 3] it was a place which anybody could have seen it and 4] because of shock and not knowing what to do just give her time to calm down then try talking to her, it may be hard but you may have to explain to her why you did what you did, and if you don't know why then i suggest beginning to think why
I said she's never felt the same way as me. I guess other than that though, it's probable.
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3:54 pm on Oct. 15, 2008 | Joined Oct. 2008 | 15 Days Active
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Quote: from Marith at 6:54 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
I dont think she would be someone who ould come out and just tell you that she likes you cz theres no reason for her too... shes got this other guy and others before him im sure... but she at least has some reason to feel that it was worth getting mad over... if she didnt care about you at all she wouldnt have overreacted.. Quote: from Anonymous at 3:48 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
Quote: from Marith at 6:35 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
Yeah, i think this persons got it straight... It wouldve been better to talk it out with her in private... if your friends it shouldnt be awkward. and when its over the computer or texting you cat really get tone of voice so she may have mistaken it Quote: from yamihemi at 3:30 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
if she cared for you before, she might just be mad in general it may not be directly at you but girls can be over emotional, she may be mad because she liked you and now you've finally admitted to her, she would feel like your trying to stop her getting over you, she may not be directly mad at you but since she could possibly still like you that could explain why she is so mad, but thats only if she likes you it could just be she wasn't impressed that 1] choose to long to say anything 2] her boyfriend MAY have seen it 3] it was a place which anybody could have seen it and 4] because of shock and not knowing what to do just give her time to calm down then try talking to her, it may be hard but you may have to explain to her why you did what you did, and if you don't know why then i suggest beginning to think why
I said she's never felt the same way as me. I guess other than that though, it's probable.
I guess... it just really confuses me.
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