I can't learn, remember, or apply anything I study in college. I should just drop out. I have nothing to look forward to in the future.I feel helpless because no one can cure stupidity. No one can help me. I want a solution to my problem but there aren't any. I don't know what to do. I just want to die.
7:30 pm on Oct. 13, 2008
cherryD
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You are not stupid. You just don't have the attitude. You don't think you can do it, therefore you are not trying. Calm down, and don't get frustrated once you met with a question you can't do. Memory..it takes time to build up. Try memorizing calmly whenever you are free and sometimes recite the stuff in your brain while you are waiting for a train or whatsoever. slowly, your memory builds up and it would be easier for you to remember the stuff. Also, if you can manage to develop an interest in the subject, you will be able to remember the things in it better because you like it. Don't think that you are stupid, it's not going to help. You should know that if you are in college now you have a chance to be something better than people who have dropped out of school in high school or something. With that in mind, be more determined and you will survive. In college most things depend on your self-willingness. If you are willing to study, you will be great at it. No one will remind you to study and if you don't do it yourself your grades will start dropping and it's hard to catch up. But if you have the determination to do it I'm sure you will catch up. Remember, you are NOT stupid. You are just confused.
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