i am engaged and i was around this guy today who has a girlfriend but for some reason, that doesn't stop him from poking me in the butt

what the???? i had to tell him immediately not to do that anymore....so he didn't. but that didn't stop him from getting all up in my face and continuously flirting with me and every other girl in his vicinity....dry-humping one, making pervy comments to me and another.....it's like seriously? serious?!

and the other day he came up behind me and slid his hands down my arm while in a silly voice saying "i want your body". ok it was obvious he was only joking but dude! boundaries! when he jokes like this, i usually try to give him signs to stop by jokingly "pun ching" or "kicking" him instead of encouraging his humor......but apparantly it doesn't work

when i told my fiance about this guy, he got sooooooooo unbelievably angry lol.

and it's not even a compliment when guys like this flirt....you're just another girl. cus they flirt with EVERYONE

and it really sucks that he's like this cus when he is not being pervy, he's really cool and we have lots in common......but then he ruins that haha

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I'm unsure if you knew this, but any violence against a guy other than a kick in the balls is usually considered flirting...within limits ofcourse.

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it's just i rather do that than play along on his joke, ya know?

but oh well......i hope he's not taking me the wrong way..... :-\

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...he IS being a perv...you even said so yourself.

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He is so being a perv. You can have him up for harrassment but make sure he doesn't counter claim against the punches and kicks.

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I flirt with ALL girls, its called FUN!!!!
Does not mean I want to screw everyone of them. Also I tend to stop if they dont reciprocate. So make it clear you dont like it and he will stop.  

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Quote: from IceTeaEdwin at 4:34 pm on Sep. 24, 2008

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...he IS being a perv...you even said so yourself.

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i know that......what r u trying to say

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My bad, I miss read ^-^

Nvm then...just tell him to stop because it makes you feel weird.

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Quote: from sarah is hot at 4:36 pm on Sep. 24, 2008

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He is so being a perv. You can have him up for harrassment but make sure he doesn't counter claim against the punches and kicks.

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i dont make real physical contact. i make gestures of punching and kicking, ya know?

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Sorry I didn't read it properly. Go ahead and get him in trouble with the law then. He deservesd it by the sound of things

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He is so being a perv. You can have him up for harrassment but make sure he doesn't counter claim against the punches and kicks.

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He can't counter claim.  Whenever its girl vs guy, the law favors women automatically and even more considering this is something related to sexual harrassment.  

This guy is in trouble.  Shouldn't be disrespecting you like that.